My g/f is goin off out of the country for school for a few months with some friends, its some school program I think. I know her friends are kinda party peeps but she isnt uinless its brought to her. If i was to bring up the fact that I dont want her to "Grind" or dance with random guys at a club cuz i dont want her to lead them on just incase they take it the wrong way and they try "Somthing". But what if she gets on the defensive side and tries to argue with me that its like no fun without doing that or jsut like making it seem like that has to happen to have fun. Should I get mad? Is it ok for her to get like that?
2007-02-28 21:08:01 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I can guarantee she will get defensive...If you trust her, no need to tell her that anyways...If you dont, you should end this before she leaves...
2007-02-28 21:55:49 · answer #1 · answered by ABBYsMom 7 · 2⤊ 0⤋
A girl who thinks grinding with some random guy is the onli way 4 her 2 hav fun is not worth ur time. Ask her if she would b happy if u go grind som other babes. Im with u man.
2007-03-01 05:16:50 · answer #2 · answered by Jerzee 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You know. I never saw someone invent an entire fight before it ever happened. Wow. That is impressive. Look, you don't have the right to tell your girlfriend what she can and cannot do. To tell her that she cannot dance with someone or grind with them would assume that she WOULD do that with someone that isn't you. Think about it. It assumes you don't trust her, and yes, she would probably get mad about that and she would have a right to. Tell her to have a good time and take her out before she leaves for a nice dinner. Tell her you are going to miss and treat her well before she leaves. Don't assume something is going to happen before it ever happens. You are basically starting a fight when you do that. Don't play to your assumptions. It will destory the relationship.
2007-03-01 05:13:55 · answer #3 · answered by One Odd Duck 6 · 2⤊ 0⤋
do you trust her? thats the main thing here, it sounds like you caring for her and dont want any harm to come to her which is understandable, but also sounds a bit like you dont trust her. i would say that you dont have much cause to get mad, she hasnt done anything yet, and for all you know may not do anything wrong at all. if you really wanted to tell her how you feel try making light of it, you know make a joke so she knows you care but that you also trust her....hope it all works out
2007-03-01 05:14:38 · answer #4 · answered by deni 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if your g/f respected how you feel and what you think about that then she wont be like that. she may go out and all but she wont "grind" with other guys she may just dance with her friends...talk to her about it tell her how you feel she shouldnt get mad over something like that, and if she does then thats just stupid.
2007-03-01 09:42:58 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
All you should do is let her know you will miss her and let her know you are going to worry about her safety...after all, isn't that what you are really concerned with...not of her with other men, but other men with her? Just talk to her as I stated above and she will know you really care for her and are willing to let her have some freedom when she needs it...
2007-03-01 05:14:40 · answer #6 · answered by ♥Minnie Mouse♥ 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
tell her that you wouldnt like it if she does that. if she gets mad... ect. tell her you trust her and she can if she wants... but you would rather her not.... also tell her you wont cause you respect and love her.
2007-03-01 05:14:27 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋