inexperience female dater is asking how can you tell if someone is "a player"??? or if they really like you???

Answer 1

First you need to relax. This is your world. A player... so, you are afraid that a guy is handing you a load of crap, just so he can crush your heart and go laughing down that road that he took a piece of your pie? Ok, so welcome to the dating world. However, becoming pessimistic, and jaded is no answer. Being paranoid that this guy is this or that... stop. You will waste your time. Women want men to tell them the truth, yet they never believe what they say. Simple... pay attention that what a man DOES, not what he says. I mean watch what he does in relation to everything and everybody, not just you. When something doesnt seem right, it is because, it isn't. Lastly, hold back... don't fantasize about the end result until you realize what you have. The more emotions you reveal too early, the more another person, and yes a player, knows how to work you. It is a great rule of romance... to always leave the other party guessing.

Answer 2

It depends entirely on your prospective of seeing a thing. The players are deceptive, if verything goes perfect that means there is something wrong with it.
It does not means that if someone genuine has tried to be perfect he is a " player".
Now there is a simple test, Give some leverage to the dating partner, if he is enjoying and promoting your moves, means he is a player and is happy at seeing you fall in the trap.
rest it is all common sense and that you need to judge the person... there is no instrument to measure a player or a genuine guy.

So donot be afraid to jump in water if you want to learn to swim..
Rock on
Vir

Answer 3

If someone really Likes you they will always be there for you through thick and thin. If they are a player they always have an excuse for why they couldn't come over or why they didn't call or something came up. and always go by your Gut feeling.