Give someone you love another chance that was horrible to you (again!) or Give someone new a first chance?
2007-02-28 20:54:56 · 12 answers · asked by LaPalma 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
i wud give someone new a first chance...
sorry for that but thats the truth... do not forget, someone also gave u a first chance when u were new... if everybody will think to give another chance to someone that was horrible, then no one new will ever get a chance to show his/her love...
2007-02-28 21:11:49 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You could give your love another chance. The thing that is so painful about doing this is that your love will not see you as the forgiving, loving person you are. Your love will see you as someone who allows themself to be treated horribly and does nothing about it. Your love won't change. Especially if you give them another chance. It hurts real bad but if you know you deserve better (which you do) don't let "love" get all the best you have to give cause being treated bad will change who you are and your ability to be in a real loving relationship. Definately give someone a new first chance. Give a thousand new first chances until you find what YOU want.
2007-03-01 05:22:48 · answer #2 · answered by C8H10N402 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would rather give someone a new a chance. If someone hurt me once, they can easily do it again. I don't want to get in a situation where I can be hurt twice. I had a guy treat me pretty horribly, and then two days later he wanted me back. By that point, I had thought about it and I had decided it was best for me to move on. A couple days after that, I found the guy I am now living with and in a pretty serious relationship with. I don't regret not taking the old guy back AT ALL.
2007-03-01 05:01:35 · answer #3 · answered by One Odd Duck 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would say give a new guy a first chance. Mistakes and misunderstandings are one thing, but if someone was horrible to you, than move on from that to anything else, hopefully it turns out to be something better. And if not that time, eventually it will.
2007-03-01 05:00:55 · answer #4 · answered by ppodjames 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would say to give someone new a first chance.. Usually people who have treated you bad in the past, haven't changed much.. Eventhough they may say they have changed, it's probably just so that they can get you back, and probably do it again! Be careful..
Been there, done that.. My ex treated me bad on several occasions and broke my heart, and I went back thinking I couldn't do better or didn't deserve better, but now I am with a wonderful man who treats me like a princess, and makes me feel so much better about myself than I could have ever imagined!
2007-03-01 05:06:57 · answer #5 · answered by Jasmine 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
From my own experience, if they treated you horrible once, they'll do it again. Give someone a new first chance and stay away from the one that treated you so bad.
2007-03-01 04:58:58 · answer #6 · answered by Steel 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Give someone new a chance ...........if they have been horrible once they are more likely to do it again.
2007-03-01 05:02:56 · answer #7 · answered by NiceGuy 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Give someone new a first chance. That is the way i am feeling right now. He needs to take that chip off his shoulder. I don't need any more sorrow.
2007-03-01 05:00:35 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
i would rather give someone new a first chance..I am sorry, but once bitten...I never, never forget...
2007-03-01 04:58:25 · answer #9 · answered by ♥Minnie Mouse♥ 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Both
2007-03-01 05:03:28 · answer #10 · answered by Sean 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋