and he had a liplock with me for at least 2 minutes pushed my breast and played with it forcibly i tried to run but he caught be and said he wants to marry me should i ? he literally crossed his limits yesterday and now how can i say yes ?????????
2007-02-28 20:22:11 · 12 answers · asked by preeti 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
He may want to marry you, but he certainly does not respect you. He seems to have a violent, very controlling streak about him. If you marry this guy, it will only get worse. I was with a guy that was very controlling, and to this day, he blames me for the breakup and the ruin of what he said was a perfect relationship--perfect for him--he always got his way. It was only ruined when I said "no more" to him. You need to realize that you deserve a guy that is going to respect you and never force himself on you in ANY way or be physically violent in ANY way. You know that he crossed the line this time, and he's probably approached the line before. You need to stand up to him and tell him that this behavior isn't what you want and it isn't going to be tolerated. If I were you, I would leave him now before things get really bad. This is abuse. Stand up for yourself.
2007-02-28 20:43:12 · answer #1 · answered by One Odd Duck 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hi Preeti, He did cross the line. I think his true self was showing. If you marry this guy,i think he will be abusy in bed and out of bed. This is a very bad sign... You make the choice, but if you pick him you better learn how to protect yourself from him... A Friend Who Is Concern About You...
Clowmy
2007-02-28 20:35:12 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
i think you should tell him.. that he crossed the limit. and i think its for you to decide if you want to marry him... he might have thought you were playing around when you were trying to get away from him... he is your bf most gf's dont run away...
2007-02-28 20:31:20 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
im particular he's in basic terms immature it extremely is extremely useful to bypass away this one becuase adult men like that have a tendency to stay immature...the worst sort of guy to have as a b/f is an immature one,sorry its in basic terms the fact..
2016-11-26 21:39:27 · answer #4 · answered by loveall 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
be careful... he stepped his line and you're not happy... make sure he makes it up to you first before you give in... the decision is ultimately yours--make a list of his good points and bad points... make a list of your good and bad points too... if he complements you or his good points are better than his bad points, you can decide from there... otherwise, maybe you made a mistake...
2007-02-28 20:47:04 · answer #5 · answered by wat_more_can_i_say? 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
WERE YALL ARGUEING? IF SO , THEN HIM THROWING YOU ON THE BED LIKE THAT AND MAYBE HURTING YOU AT THAT TIME IS NOT A GOOD THING. SO ,FOR YOUR SAFETY DONT TELL HIM YOULL MARRY HIM JUST YET
2007-02-28 20:29:01 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Do you want us to make the decison for you of who to marry ?
2007-02-28 20:26:39 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
You know he crossed the limit...tell him so...
2007-02-28 20:26:23 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
Apparently you know nothing about rough sex. Who doesn't love when their man throws them on the bed, shoves his tongue down their throat, and grabs their titts? Plus he asked you to marry him??? Damn, you have it all going for you, don't ya? Enjoy it while it lasts!
2007-02-28 20:35:06 · answer #9 · answered by xkimmimonstarx 2 · 0⤊ 3⤋
don't say yes... unless you like what he's done 2 you..
2007-02-28 20:31:13 · answer #10 · answered by blizzard 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋