ive always been a nice guy: love my family,only have good things to say about just about anybody, hold the door open for everybody, i even flirt w/ old women cus i know they love it. always got a smile on my face, always help everybody out anyway i can. what do i get out of it? NOTHING! recently i met a girl whose really cool, smokin hot, and everything a guy could wish for, and the funny thing is that when i met her i was drunk enough to be a ****** asshole. guess what? she diggs me! ive heard girls tell me forever that they want a nice guy.. who do they go out w/? ******* assholes! this is it girls, try to convince me to 'do as i say not as i do' for the last time im ******* thru w/ being the nice guy left in the dust.theres about to be one more asshole in the game and one less nice guy w/out no game. why should i keep playing a stratigy that does me no good?? this is reality, try to convince me otherwise i beg you i dont want to be a jerk but it seems to be the only thing that works
2007-02-28 20:21:25 · 8 answers · asked by somedude 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
i love nice guys! they're so rare.i've only met one in the whole 17 years i've lived(is that saying much?lol) & he's my best guy friend.i love the fact that you're a true gentleman,it's so nice to be treated like a lady.most guys i know are still immature & likes to make fun of girls & to really crap stuff.i wish i met more of guys like you.i know i'd immediately fall for you.if you have confidence in who you are & a great sense of humor combined with a little intelligence,that's all th more better!guys act like assholes these days.trust me bro,all my girlfriends want nice girls as well(though i'm not sure if it's because of our Asian culture).somone who treats them nicely & like a lady.i'm not telling you have to be like a gentleman always(there are times when we'd love to be under your control,like in the bedroom,haha)but it's upto you,cos if this is your personality,then so be it.don't change.i've been looking for a guy like this all my life & just when i thought i found someone as close to that,he turns out to be less than i thought he was.mean & rude.that just turns me off now.BIG TIME.most women would love to get married to someone like you.maybe your hanging out with that specific kind of girls who like to be treated bad.there are many girls out there who would love to meet you i'm sure.(including me,lol).just be yourself,treat the ladies who DESERVE respect with respect & i know you'll get somone as wonderful as yourself.
good luck & have a lovely day!
:^)
2007-02-28 20:42:44 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Hun.. Being a nice guy isn't a bad thing!! Just finding a girl who appreciates a nice guy is.. I love my boyfriend, because he is a nice guy.. I've dated a few assholes.. They aren't my cup of tea.. All I can say is.. No matter how females may be to you because your a nice guy, there is a girl out there who really wants a nice guy.. and whenever you find her, you'll know!!
Good luck!
Not all nice guys finish last!!
2007-02-28 20:46:11 · answer #2 · answered by Jasmine 2 · 4⤊ 0⤋
man nice guys may finish last but at least we finish. i know its hard when it seems like everything is crap. i was and still am a nice guy at 23 years old. i use to say the same thing. then i met this girl and we started dating. Ive been married to her for 2 years now and i was a nice guy. i still am just stick it out man it'll get better.
2007-02-28 22:03:10 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 4⤊ 0⤋
continue to be that nice guy..if a girl cannot see what a great guy she has in front of her, then she isnt worth your time. i know it may seem that all the girls go for the assholes but i promise that the sweet guys DO NOT finish last. at times it may seem like all your sweet gestures and acting like a gentleman is all going to waste. it isnt! a girl who deserves to be with u will see who and what she has in front of her and wont want to loose u. and those girls who decided to go for the assholes instead of u will see that when u date an asshole u get treated like one..
2007-02-28 20:48:45 · answer #4 · answered by gishelle 1 · 4⤊ 0⤋
A woman doesn't want a doormat for a boyfriend. Have you never heard of the battle of the sexes? Women love to battle. If you challenge a woman and win, she's yours for life. If you don't challenge a woman, she will find someone who will. And you can bet your retirement fund that he won't ride a Vespa. There are plenty of ways to challenge a woman without looking like a prick, but that's the secret to being nice AND getting woman, looking friendly whilst kicking her butt!!!
2007-02-28 20:46:00 · answer #5 · answered by DockLuv 2 · 1⤊ 2⤋
A girl once told me the same thing...we were gonna hook up..but I treated her like a lady with respect......we never happen to have the fun....she told me that I am a nice guy but she won't be able to meet me..................they are idiot biatches...............they don't even know what they want.................the more you abuse them the more they like you............well I am now left with two choices...........treat a lady like a trash and get whatever I want or treat her with respect and be looked down............I was just in the process of making the decision
2007-02-28 20:30:02 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 1⤋
i know how you feel nice guys get walked all over we are the first to be used and the first to thrown away
2007-02-28 23:43:39 · answer #7 · answered by atreyu852006 1 · 1⤊ 1⤋
To most girls nice guy=|>ussy. They'll deny it but all you have to do is look for yourself.
2007-02-28 20:30:09 · answer #8 · answered by J D 5 · 1⤊ 1⤋