Is it ok for My g/f to go with clubs with girlfriends and stuff? But what if she dances on some guy? Is it right for me to feel mad about it?
2007-02-28 20:19:09 · 19 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
it is ok as long as your g/f knows her boundaries and she is honest with you . dancing with another guy is still acceptable so long as of course there is no flirting or malicious bodily contact. talk to her if you don't like it but then again you don't want to be too demanding
2007-02-28 20:23:16 · answer #1 · answered by asphyxia 5 · 0⤊ 1⤋
It is okay to a certain extent. If she can be trusted then yes it is okay. If she gives a questionable attitude then HE%% no! LOL! I mean seriously. As long as she knows to go to the club and don't bring the club home then everything is good. When guys put their number in her phone as she dances and she calls the number and keeps the contacts outside of the club thats when you should realize she may not be ready for you and what you are ready for. If someone asks for her number and she says no or she gives a false number, know that she knows that she has what she wants and doesn't need to search anymore. Just think positive and think the best of what you want and let life play it's role.
2007-03-01 04:34:13 · answer #2 · answered by BitterSweet 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Allowed? She's "allowed" to do anything she wants to. Although dancing "on" some guy makes me wonder what kind of club you're talking about. Getting mad because she talks to or dances WITH another man is insecurity. Do you speak to other females, flirt a little maybe? That's human nature; as long as it doesn't go any further than that and you both respect your relationship you're OK
2007-03-01 04:25:48 · answer #3 · answered by uknowme 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's a matter of trust and not being overly possessive.
Have you gone clubbing before? Possibly you don't like the idea of clubbing but if your girlfriend wants to have innocent fun there with her buddies, you should let her. You can follow her there if you want to but you should always respect her choice to go clubbing with her friends. Of course, be on the look out for "friends" who have a bad influence on her. Try to understand her activities and friends more.
2007-03-01 04:24:53 · answer #4 · answered by lkraie 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It should be okay for her to go to clubs with her friends.. As long as she doesn't give you a reason to be upset, then give her the benefit of the doubt.. Trust is the main issue.. As long as you trust her it shouldn't be a major problem.. Even if she dances with some random guy it shouldn't be a major problem, as long as she isn't doing anything more than just dancing! Dancing is harmless.. TRUST HER! Atleast until she does something to betray your trust!
2007-03-01 04:34:32 · answer #5 · answered by Jasmine 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't you want someone who is independent and has a life of their own? It's not all that much fun to have someone who is little more than a conjoined twin attached to your hip. Being jealous does nothing but drive the other person away - it doesn't prevent them from cheating if that is what they're going to do.
Relax and trust your girlfriend until she truly does something to make you feel differently.
2007-03-01 04:23:35 · answer #6 · answered by JooniMoon 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think it's normal to feel mad about it, I would feel mad too if my boyfriend went out and got his groove on lol but you have to understand that girls need a girls night out once in a while (not every weekend) just like guys, it's healthy to go out here and then and have some healthy fun with friends.
2007-03-01 04:24:46 · answer #7 · answered by ?Jaileen? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
As long as she doesn't kiss or sleep with any other guys then its fine. (As long as she is old enough to get into the clubs, of course) Don't you trust her? Has she done something in the past or are you just being paranoid? I go out without my boyfriend and I usually go out with the men from where I work and my boyfriend completely trusts me. And I trust him when he goes out with people from college, some of which are girls.
2007-03-01 04:25:22 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You bet you can. Keep in mind though that you are just a boyfriend and nothing more. You should go out, club with your friends, and "keep the party alive" if you know what I am saying. In this case, what is good for the gander is good for the goose.
2007-03-01 04:24:55 · answer #9 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Its depending upon u both belongs to which culture. coz in some countries its not assume bad and some other taken that thing as very seriously. for example in India its taken very seriously but same time in western countries its taken as ok. So what sud be as per ur culture decide accordingly.
urs frnd.
2007-03-01 04:26:52 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
If it's ok for you to go out with the guys at the same time...
2007-03-01 04:24:14 · answer #11 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋