so there's this guy i like am 14 nerly 15 n hes 19 we are quite close and i've told him that i like him but i think he means as a mate but befire i sed this i kept sayin lvya n luff ya n he always replied love ya more wot does it mean and should i ask him out? plz help
2007-02-28 19:54:36 · 15 answers · asked by beci 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Hes too old for you
2007-02-28 19:57:12 · answer #1 · answered by Rhythm Nation 2 · 3⤊ 0⤋
Honestly the best thing you can do is back away from the 19 year old. At your age the difference is too much. A 19 year old will want different things from a relationship than you will and it will only cause upset or worse. You will soon be old enough to be in an older relationship but I wouldn't advise that yet.
I know it may sound condesending and something your parents would say but wait it out and enjoy being a teenager.
The trouble it could cause to persue this relationship will not be worth it and you may regret the hurt afterwards. When I was 15 I dated an 18 year old and thought it was great to be in an adult relationship. He had a car, smoked and drank but also wanted sex and I thought that was what I wanted to. I now regret the whole thing and looking back I wish I hadn't done it.
Boys seriously aren't worth the bother at your age! :)
2007-02-28 21:26:28 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I was 18 when I met this girl who was only 14. I fancied her a lot and she liked me so we started to date but never had sex, that never came up. But, she was a young 14 year old, quite imature really and after a few dates I realised that it wasn't going to work.
Some people will say the age gap does work and some say it ddoesn't but it's all down to the two involved.
I think you should stop with the 'luff ya' stuff and just try to back off a little and try to be just friends to see how things go. I know it's gona be hard to do this as Im trying to back off from a girl my self.
Stick with it and see how things progress.
2007-02-28 20:15:03 · answer #3 · answered by stevie_head 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You are still a child deary, wait till the right time which is four years away and you can then ask a guy your age out,19 is way too old for a 15 year old,have you thought of what might happen to him if he sleeps with you and is caught?
Leave him alone,saying he loves you more doesn't mean he wants you romantically,for all you know he even has a girlfriend.
2007-02-28 20:06:08 · answer #4 · answered by vanpuj 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
ok I remember being your age and those older boys were great..I mean Yummy!, but He can get into a lot of trouble messing with you seriously..You think it won't happen...but It can..When i was 15 I hooked My 18 year old cousin up with my 14 year old friend ..and guess what? She got pregnant, and not by my cousin but another guy and they arrested my cousin for Statutory Rape...He spent 5 years in Prison. He can't get a job, because of his record..and still has to report where he is living to the Sex Offenders list and this was almost 10 years ago...Also considering that this guy will not be serious about you and you won't even really be serious about him...Its More Trouble than its is worth...Please Believe me....
2007-02-28 20:05:29 · answer #5 · answered by Shonda 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He's too old for you. I think, when he was saying that, it is just something people say. I don't think it means anything I'm afraid. He probably doesn't realise you took it to mean more - but the misunderstanding is mainly caused by the age difference probably. Sorry.
2007-02-28 20:07:49 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
sounds like he is interested but i would bet £100 its for the wrong reasons, be very careful dont do anything with him untill your old enough, if he really like you then he will wait. think of it as a test.
if he leaves you know he was not worth the hassle, good luck hun
2007-02-28 21:16:34 · answer #7 · answered by sweetness 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
the fact that i 19 year old isnt hanging out with other 19yr olds is very weird, how sad is he to be hanging out with a 14year old (im not saying your sad) stay away from this weirdo!!! find a guy your own age
2007-02-28 19:59:12 · answer #8 · answered by Delete 3 · 2⤊ 0⤋
well if he's nineteen and wants to go out with you that would make him a pervert even a pedo! id stay clear if i were you hes a man ur a child think about it?
2007-02-28 20:13:32 · answer #9 · answered by suzy 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
If he would accept you asking him out for a date, he would have a law book thrown at him. Enuff said.
2007-02-28 20:17:57 · answer #10 · answered by roses2500 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋