There's a guy I /really/ like and have liked for a while, but I didn't act fast enough (I don't think he has the slightest clue) and now he has a girlfriend. Is there anything I can do? Or do I just have to wait there relationship out?
2007-02-28 19:33:19 · 17 answers · asked by hipple90 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
There's a guy I /really/ like and have liked for a while, but I didn't act fast enough (I don't think he has the slightest clue) and now he has a girlfriend. Is there anything I can do? Or do I just have to wait there relationship out?
I realized I liked him only a few days before he told me he had a new girlfriend. Before that we didn't talk much I guess. Everyday more that I talk to him the more this bugs me. We flirt and he'll stop and wait with me for the busses after school, weak stuff like that. It just sucks he has a girlfriend. And the sad thing is that they are only going out because she told him she liked him, if I had done that it could've been me.
2007-02-28 19:41:32 · update #1
u can do one thing, u make friendship with him first, u maintain the relationship of friendship very well, then u know the nature of him as well as his girlfriend if it is possible. dont impress by others only by look. bcoz look is not important, but the nature is very very important. and after knowing the nature of him, u think u still love him, dont be blind on anybody. if yes but u cant get his love, so dont worry at all, bcoz, God will give u better person, u think that he is not perfect for me, and u will get better person then this. remember one thing, love is not blind, but lovers are blind. u think positive and take a better decision.
2007-02-28 19:46:18 · answer #1 · answered by mak 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well if you are friends with her or if he really likes her your best bet is to leave it be. Maybe he likes you too...but you do not know. Move on. See if your feelings stay. If so start dropping hints. Or stay single and drop hints and see how he responds without trying to get him to be unfaithful. If he would cheat on her or break up with her because he crushes on you then he probably would do it to you too. Remember dont wait forever because they may las for years or then again they may be together a short period of time and you may get your chance....But when u get a chance show him how you feel w/o being to upfront!
2007-03-01 03:39:02 · answer #2 · answered by ShayShay 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You said it yourself. You didn't move fast enough and now he's another girl's boyfriend. Instead of waiting their relationship out, why don't you try to move on?? i know you really like this guy but you can't have him, so pin your hopes and affections on someone you can have.
2007-03-01 03:39:38 · answer #3 · answered by Alyeria 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you'll just have to wait it out and if it doesnt work out between them and he's the one that gets dumped then be careful you could be the rebound chick.
But if he dumps her then go for it.
Otherwise theres plenty of other guys out there
2007-03-01 03:38:30 · answer #4 · answered by scotty84 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
uhhhh girl i know what u are going through and it didn't work for me he ended staying w/the other girl and mind u she was ugly...don't u hate when that happens when u know ur better and he stays w/the other chick...instead of dwelling on him go find another man b/c all that time u waist on this guy u could be enjoying w/another which might be a better guy then the one u like...
2007-03-01 03:37:50 · answer #5 · answered by jojo 5 · 0⤊ 1⤋
u have to wait for their relationship out oterwise the girl may think bcoz u want her u tried to break..and waiting keeps u on the safe side....n if he likkes the girl and faithful u shoud forget about it.......wha if u were in his place ???think how wud u feel..
2007-03-01 03:40:31 · answer #6 · answered by dv_theos 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you hesitated and you lost, are you sure you just like him more now he has a girlfriend? why didn't you act before? seems strange especially as you say you liked him a while.
2007-03-01 03:37:55 · answer #7 · answered by looby 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Youre gonna have to wait the relationship out
If it was meant to be, it will happen
2007-03-01 03:37:02 · answer #8 · answered by Rhythm Nation 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Why do u want that only? you can get better than it
And if you really like him you should think of him also
2007-03-01 03:38:30 · answer #9 · answered by SHAMA L 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
dont be a wrecker wait to see how it pan out
2007-03-01 03:36:23 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋