I've had a crush on this guy for a while and he's in my dance class and we end up partner pretty often, and I can rarely stop even thinking about him, and I dont even want to think about him or even have a crush on him anymore.
2007-02-28 19:00:25 · 11 answers · asked by :) 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
From the way it sounds, you have a lot of emotions that are building up and you need to vent them. How does he feel about you? That is another matter entirely to go into, but just be sure never to deny your emotions just to make them go away because you never know what you might have missed out on without going for it. How is that any better?
2007-02-28 19:08:22 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
This fact is that the mind may want to do one thing, and your heart wants to do another. If it's in your heart, then it's very hard to stop liking someone. The best advice I can think of is to replace that crush with someone else. If you can somehow have a crush on someone else instead, that will definitely help.
2007-03-01 03:17:31 · answer #2 · answered by GJneedsanswers 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You have to distance yourself from that guy or you will never get over him. I am sorry to say, you are going to have to find another dance class. If you are having a hard time not thinking about him it may help you to use thought association. Think about something that grosses you out, or you really hate, and when ever you start thinking about him in the future, think about that thing you hate. The thought association exercise should help you forget about him in about one to two weeks.
2007-03-01 03:08:57 · answer #3 · answered by Bud#21 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You obviously like him, no matter what you want to believe. Maybe it's strictly a physical attraction. There is almost no way to stop thinking about someone you like, just try to occupy your time talking with others in your class while you're around him. That's about it.
2007-03-01 03:07:00 · answer #4 · answered by thecraze 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Then stop thinking about him! Find something else to take your mind. Everytime you milk that desire, by seeing him, talking to him, or holding on to some sort of momento, it will only make it worse. Disdain the things you cannot have, or do not want, and move on. It will pass.
2007-03-01 03:05:22 · answer #5 · answered by Samos 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
why stop liking him? does he have bad breath??? joke!
there is nothing wrong in liking someone, as long as no one gets hurt go for it. someday this feeling would be lost (eventually). just go with the flow and enjoy having time with him. treat him normally, or else he'll notice that you're avoiding him and that is quit not a good thing...
2007-03-01 03:09:31 · answer #6 · answered by tin 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you've got a dilemma ignoree him BUT ONLY IF your sure you don't wanna like him anymore.
ignor him stop thinking about him hang around other guy's, watch T.V. listen to music hang out with your close friend find out what they think.
and if none of that works and you still have feelings for him just be like w.e. i like him maybe something is suppose to work out between him and I.
and who knows something might work out between you too you never thought and never wanted to happen lol.
if you can't get him off your mind he is probably something special to you =].
2007-03-01 03:07:20 · answer #7 · answered by *B.S.S.F.P* 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well why not? i mean you can't tell yourself to do something your whole you doesn't want to do.
But if you want to stop liking him then switch classes, find defects in him, and just simply imagind him as nothing you'd ever like
2007-03-01 03:05:50 · answer #8 · answered by ninacoqueta0817 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
first, why are you putting a stop to liking someone. advice: so long as you do not make a conscious effort to forget (because this will always backfire), i think you will do fine.
2007-03-01 03:04:38 · answer #9 · answered by counterculturalist 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Started meeting other guys, you will get over him sooner or later!
2007-03-01 03:06:17 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋