What happened????

Question

Ok, I have a 3 month old and I live with my ex for the sake of the baby. I met someone in Mid Jan and everything has been GREAT. He is everything I have even wanted in a guy and he says I really make him happy. We went out to the bars a couple Sats ago and on the drive home a song came on the radio and he had me change it because he would get depressed. I told him if he was thinking of someone else maybe he shouldn't be with me. Then we talked about it a few days later and he said he was completely over her and that even if she would come back he would tell her no cause he was happy with me. Then the next Sat we went out for his birthday. He got pretty drunk and called me her name when we were getting out of the car. I kinda yelled at him and next thing I knew I heard he took off walking home. I went to go find him and eventually heard from a friend of his that he was at another bar down the street. We went and got him took him to his place and his friend suggested I stay.

the next mornign everything was fine and I was willing to forgive him for the night before, but I was going to talk to him later that day. We talked and he said we were still together and everything was ok. I went home and called him an hour later to let him know his friend wanted him to call and see how he was. He told me he would call me later. I didn't call him because I knew he was feeling shitty and that he was having a birthday dinner at his parents. I called a few times between 9:30 pm and 11:30pm and finally tried one last time at 2am and talked to him. He got off the phone and called me back and then about 20 minutes later he passed out on me so I called back and left a message for him to call me in the morning. The next day I dropped the ex at work and he usually coems over about 2:00pm. I called, but no answer, then the ex calls and says he is not working so I have to go get him. Afraid he is going to show up I call again at 2:15 and 2:30.

I call again at 3:30, 5:30, 9:30 and finally 11:30 leaving a couple of messages along the way. The next morning comes around and I haven't heard from him so I am getting worried. I e-mail him on myspace and notice I am still on the top of his friend list so I am certain things ae ok. I drive by his house and knock on the door, but he doesn't answer, I think he is sleeping, but when I get to my car I look up and see him looking out his window so I call him thinking he just woke up, but I get no answer and I see him peeking out again so I call again. Then I go back to the door, knock some more, and a friend texts me and says he is online. I go home , check my mail, and he read it, but didn't write back, but I am still on the top of his list. About an hour later he gets on and erases his ENTIRE myspace account. I call at 2pm and leave a message and haven't called or heard from him since. What is going on?

Also when we talked on the phone for the last time Sunday night he asked if my ex was still moving MOnday like I said he was. I told him probably not since he had not found a place. Could this be why? That even though he said he would stick around with my living sitiuation, he got a little overwhelmed with it all?

Answer 1

I would move on....

Answer 2

Though he may look like he has gotten over his gf but inside, he is feeling the hurt and depressed. Give him time. Let him call you if he wants a chat. But I think he needs time to heal his wounds right now.

Answer 3

I don't know what happened, but you should let him know how you feel about him mentioning this other girl. Sounds like you're doing a fine job though. Keep the dialog with him open.

Answer 4

"drama" now likely means drama during the middle then the latter parts of the potential relationship

There are people that like "drama" but my feeling is that a different person will be better with you n baby

Answer 5

Leave him and never look back !
Good Luck