okay well this all started last year, when i met someone special...i'll call him m. i liked m a lot, and it was pretty obvious i liked him, but i didnt think he liked me back at all...and so after a while of being depressed and down thinking that m didnt like me back, i sort of "moved on" when his best friend, x, asked me out and showed interest in me. so after a while of being with x...i continued to like m a little bit, but of course no one knew that.
anyways, after x broke up with me, a while later i still had feelings for m, and so i broke down and told him that i liked him...still. this is when m told me that he DID like me last year, but doesnt anymore because of x, his best friend.
so currently, i still like m, and, yes, he knows. we are friends and talk, and when mention my ex, he tells me that he is a jerk, and that i shouldnt bother talking to him and such...
...and recently, one of their other friends informed me that "x and m talk about me"...
2007-02-28 17:21:42 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
so my question is...do you think m still likes me?
2007-02-28 17:22:12 · update #1
Who cares?? Find someone else, they both sound like immature creeps anyway..
2007-02-28 17:25:55 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
Right now even if M had liked you. X is a friend of M. That complicates your chances of being with M, because X whether he means or not, may blurt of some bad things about you to M. M, whether he believes it or not will have to act accordingly by not showing interest in you, otherwise his interest in you could make M, and X's friendship awkward, and even be lost. Be nice to X, and show him that you harbor no animosity, and if you ever get to know M more, let him see who you are for himself. eventually he can't resist, and will go for you. but try not to hurt the friend ship. the key to success is time. Let X and you be major history, and than go for M
2007-03-01 01:29:42 · answer #2 · answered by Charlie H 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
sounds to me like 9th grade stuff, ill give you advice from a 21 yr old's perspective that has already been there and heard that, first of all you gotta understand a guys ego, second even if M doesnt like you, he'll still be jealous that you went out with x and persumably made sexual contact with him in anyway shape or form which cuases jealousy with m, so of coarse m is gunna tell you that x is a bad guy becuase he is jealous, on top of which m might really like you and want you for himself but cant come in term with commitment, you have to understand that its diffucult to understand what a guy is thinkin for a female and its diffucult for male to understand what a female is thinking thats why most relationships dont work, if you really wanna know what M thinks about you ask him, and if you doesnt give you a real answer, keep on pressing him until he bursts
2007-03-01 01:30:39 · answer #3 · answered by ifucouldbeme 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Sometimes guys thinks that friends come before girls... maybe they are just getting you comfuse and he no longer likes you but maybe he does like you still.. and if you say that they talk about you.... would it be bad things or good? I really dont recommend you dating between friends... there are many other guys out there... i always say, if one day you and "m" are meant to be. maybe when you two are a little older you will bumb into one another agian.... good luck
2007-03-01 01:28:46 · answer #4 · answered by molly_tony 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
yes he does but hes still feeling hurt that u dated x. just give it time and give him space and im sure he'll come around. let him know that you still really care for him,and would like to be in a relationship.
:) good luck hun
2007-03-01 01:29:29 · answer #5 · answered by Savannah 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋