I've been in a booty call relationship for the past couple of months. Averaging every 2 weeks or so. We meet up, we hug, we kiss, we talk for a couple hours, we have sex, talk some more, cuddle, then we part ways. We've even gone out on the town a couple of times. He's told a couple family members and a few friends he works w/ about seein' me. I want to know how if any way if it's possible to tell if he's Booty Callin' any other women besides me. We've even gotten into a couple of emotional conversations and he said he has feelings for me and there's definately chemistry. I'm scared of getting hurt and wanting to take things slowly before I do anything to pursue this relationship even more. So how can I tell if I'm the only one or if he has other chicks he's booty callin'?
2007-02-28 17:20:03 · 12 answers · asked by *Who Dat* 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
With my job and his job and us living 2 hours apart is the reason why it's so long in between. That's the reason for me anyway. I've come right out and asked him if he's doing this w/ anyone else and he said that he wasn't because he works way too much. Could all be a bunch of BS too.
2007-02-28 17:38:11 · update #1
Well I also thought about in the heat of the moment telling him that I love him and see what he says. Maybe this is stupid
2007-02-28 17:51:40 · update #2
Well I also thought about in the heat of the moment telling him that I love him and see what he says. Maybe this is stupid
2007-02-28 17:51:46 · update #3
just come out and ask him..see what he wants out of this i.e a relationship or if he is just looking to hook up..you need to determine what you want out of this and u need to decide what you deserve
2007-02-28 17:25:38 · answer #1 · answered by Colie 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Umm, 1. Get a friend to come on to him, then have her call him late at night to see if he'll agree to come over. Then meet him at the door, with her. He's busted.
2. Hire a private investigator
3. Go on Cheaters.
Sounds like you're way down on the list on speed dial if it's every two weeks.
2007-02-28 17:29:31 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Kasey, booty calls are dangerous, especially for you. If he's calling other women or men, you are endanger of sexual transmitted diseases. If he gets you pregnant, you are going to be the only person to suffer because he's bailing leaving you and your child to fend for yourself. Your child suffers. So, assume he's balling other women and either protect yourself against all the above or move-on to someone who will respect and love you. You may be wasting time because the guy who'll treat you like a lady is being shut out by this drifter and you are loosing time and self-respect.
2007-02-28 17:41:06 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
He tells his friends and family about you. Maybe he tells them about other women as well. Ask a close friend of his if you feel comfortable. Otherwise you could take a risk and suggest being exclusive. If he panics, he is probably carrying on a few other booty calls too.
2007-02-28 17:26:00 · answer #4 · answered by Aphrodite 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
If your questioning it then somethings wrong with the relationship. I'd put off dating until your old enough to know the difference and not seeing people for random sex dates. There are a lot of guy's, not all of them, that look for a girl like you to use. Best wishes.
2007-02-28 17:26:38 · answer #5 · answered by Night Wind 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋
He would have been courting somebody yet had you in the decrease back of his recommendations yet you "performed" your self via enjoying video games.He appeared like he would have neglected you hence the three calls and text fabric yet your infantile habit in all possibility has him questioning F%# her now.the only thank you to salvage this situation is to do what you're able to have in the initiating tell the fact.once you're basically feeling lonely and are not possibly involved basically circulate away or no longer it incredibly is.
2016-12-14 07:59:36 · answer #6 · answered by girardot 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
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2007-02-28 17:27:35 · answer #7 · answered by JEREMY 1 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Next time he's booty callin - write your name on his caller with a permanent marker....if he still has it attached the next time, you'll know you're the only one!
2007-02-28 17:25:23 · answer #8 · answered by jbtascam 5 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Short of having him followed, you can't.
Nothing wrong with having sex for fun; it sure beats sittin home alone playing Hello Kitty.
2007-02-28 17:28:35 · answer #9 · answered by AlphaMale 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
scared of getting hurt? rofl. youre a sleez and getting pounded for fun = you will move on and find a new penis in no time
2007-02-28 17:24:37 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 2⤋