my ex girlfriend and i went through a rough break up. i miss her so much and care soo much about her. i cant stop thinking about her and no one else compares to her. It seems everthing i try fails. What can i do besides getting a new girl and not communicating with her??
2007-02-28 16:11:10 · 4 answers · asked by cubantiger23 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
the last thing you want to do is get a new girl to get over the old one. thats not fair to your new girl. first just try to clear your mind and heart. that takes time, you cant rush it but you can keep yourself busy. if you like to read, join a local reading/book club. most community libraries have those and its a good way to meet new people who have the same interest as you. if you like coffee, check out your local coffee hot spot. they usually have theme nights you could participate in, like kareoke night or poetry reading night. go to a local sports bar on weekends and bond with some guys over a game. just keep busy and give yourself time to get back to who you are before you bring someone else in your life. i promise, youre gonna be just fine. really you are. it just hurts for a while.
2007-02-28 16:22:04 · answer #1 · answered by hammy 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Stop comparing everyone you meet to her. If you always compare you will never be happy with what you have.
Moving on is 100% mental. I was with my girl for 3 1/2 years, the day I moved on, was the day I told myself to. You can hold on to something forever, but you need to let go. Prepare yourself for the future. There are girls that will make you 10 times happier. You don;t believe me now, but its true. "No one compares to her"?? Unless you were dating that girl from the Victorias Secret Catalog, I think that may be an overstatement.
Don;t start dating immediately, but surround yourself with other girls as friends. You will grow to like someone soon enough and your ex will be a fading memory. Make a decision to get over her and move on with your life.
2007-03-01 00:20:10 · answer #2 · answered by Dr. of Situational Psychology 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Get back with your ex gf if you miss her so much.
2007-03-01 00:17:32 · answer #3 · answered by Computer Geek 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
get on her friends good sides
2007-03-01 00:15:20 · answer #4 · answered by just lane 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋