My bf says that when we argue I turn the point around on him so that he has no rebuttal. He has no debating skills, and we just end up going in circles trying to get the other one to see our points. Am I being one sided or is he being overly sensitive?
2007-02-28 16:08:33 · 6 answers · asked by poet 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
We are very respectful in our arguing. Each person has a chance to be heard without interruption, voices are not raised, etc. It's more of frustration level.
2007-02-28 16:23:02 · update #1
Well, my Mom says there is no such thing as winning a family argument. Maybe the point of your arguments should be to try to find a way to agreed with each other, rather than to prove the other person wrong. What's that going to accomplish? Relationships should be about helping each other, not competition.
2007-02-28 16:12:40 · answer #1 · answered by kyla_bean 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think he's being sensitive and sometimes you should respect. When you argue about something the best way to handle it is to have a time to talk about your side and his side instead of talking all at once and make everything more complicated for you two.
2007-02-28 16:16:41 · answer #2 · answered by honeyy 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No way. Guys don't listen (just kidding ;) ) Some guys have too much pride and can't admit they are wrong. My fiance is the same way. We go round and round about things and I end up appologizing. You may be being one sided. Listem completely to what he has to say and try your hardest to understand where he is coming from. Don't get angry, life's too short to get mad over the little things. Good luck!
2007-02-28 16:13:27 · answer #3 · answered by chrisnterri520 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Maybe you need to look for a new boyfriend.
Life is too short to be arguing all the time.
2007-02-28 16:13:14 · answer #4 · answered by the menace 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
he being too sensitive
2007-02-28 16:12:33 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
he is sen
2007-02-28 16:16:05 · answer #6 · answered by killer 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋