I have a lot of problem in my life, the lattest is my debts was increasing, the debts is not because of mine but because of some one else, i just so stupit to take loan to help someone else. Now I am in a very bad situation, I lost my job but now my fren just ask me to work for him. I just get very little salary. I live with my sister family but now her husband hate me, maybe because I pay very little to him. I really can't afford my life now sometimes I dont even have money to buy lunch. My age is alomost 30 and seems like I have no future. I just have no right fren to tell all my problems and it feels so bad when i cant share with someone else. I always dream, if i get at least 20, 000 dollar, I will settle all my debts and wish to stay at my village with my mother. I really belive thats would be a very great life for me...
2007-02-28 15:43:04 · 9 answers · asked by sha2053 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Family
If you don't have money, you can work for your sister and your brother-in-law in exchange for living with them. Do the work they ask you to do and try to add little extras.
People especially family usually like to help, but not if they feel used.
Remember everyone loves the givers of this world, not so fond of the constant takers.
Make yourself valuable to others and you will have the best future, better than any 'rich' person could ever hope for!
2007-02-28 16:15:22 · answer #1 · answered by annigoodhere 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Do you have access to a mental health clinic? They usually charge whatever you can afford. There is no shame in going there to talk about your troubles and how to get out of your rut. You might need medication to help ward off depression. Maybe you could run an ad in the paper to share an apartment with someone. Go to a church and speak with a pastor. They might be able to help you to find a place you can afford. Keep working where you are until you find something better. My Father always said: "a half a loaf is better than none." (Understand that?) You didn't say why you aren't with your mother now. Do NOT give up! Do you pray? Ask God for guidance, patience, and a better life. Good luck to you - you are still young!
2007-02-28 23:58:45 · answer #2 · answered by DPL06351 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Money, don't let it take away your happiness for life. Debts, ok they can get stressful when you don't have the money to pay them, however they wont kill you,they wont lock you up. Worse case scenario would be taken to court for the balances. A payment plan would be made tailored for your earnings ,done.
Life's an adventure, live it and remember without the downs the ups wouldn't be so nice.
2007-02-28 23:53:36 · answer #3 · answered by stephenmwells 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You can dream all day, but you can't buy a new life. You need to pray and ask God for strenth to carry you through this test that you're going through.Stop complaining about the situation you're in beating yourself up. You're doing the best you can right now, and thats all that you can do for now. Things WILL get BETTER. BUT, ONLY THE STRONG SURVIVES. You have to learn how to weather the storm. If God brings you to it, He will certainly bring you through it. It's only temporary. Be Blessed!
2007-02-28 23:51:23 · answer #4 · answered by MrsE 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Have you tried a debt consolidation company?And if worse comes to worse file bankruptcy.My sister had to do it and it not only helped her get out of the collectors but it taught her how to deal with her finances better.Keep your head up it does get better . Good luck.
2007-03-01 00:00:17 · answer #5 · answered by bjustnape 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Bad move with going guarantor on a loan but by all means go and live with your mum and try to find a better job.
2007-03-01 00:14:35 · answer #6 · answered by wildpalomino 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i think i know what you going thru, let me tell you that no friends will help when you are down. iam also in bad times but i think if people like us can work together to find a solution. you can email me at dun6363@yahoo.com
2007-03-01 21:15:41 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
act like you have the money and go live were you want to.
2007-03-01 00:05:27 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
dreams are good - keep working and dreaming. be happy when can, find a nice friend.
2007-02-28 23:49:57 · answer #9 · answered by S.O.S. 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋