everytime he talks to them about it they get very violent and throw things at him. i want to help. if he really wants to go what can he do?
2007-02-28 15:42:01 · 10 answers · asked by foxeypaws 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Family
Move out. Get a student loan. Get some armor for next time he comes in contact with his parents.
2007-02-28 15:45:59 · answer #1 · answered by untuhchabul 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
What a shame! Can he go to a community college and live at home, still? He could continue work to contribute to his parents. It would be less hours and less money but his future is important! If they are really violent he needs to get out even if he doesn't go to college!! He should not have to live in fear. Tell him to get his priorities straight - Safety number one; College number two.
2007-02-28 16:06:52 · answer #2 · answered by DPL06351 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He can apply for student assistance and see what he can get. There are also lots of scholarships and grants out there. You can help him by doing some research on them for him. Talk to a guidance counselor or college assistance counselor. They can steer him in the right direction. Then he needs to just go!
2007-02-28 15:52:22 · answer #3 · answered by MissWong 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
HOW OLD IS YOUR BF ???advice him to look for a job and start saving for his new place to live then he can decides by herself on his future i dont know why his parents dont want him to go college unless they are in hardship and an iq of minus 8
just encourage him give him some strenght and inquire for some scholarship in different college this might help
goodluck
2007-02-28 15:53:53 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
If it's that bad he needs to get out and follow his dreams. However I feel the decision will be his alone in the end. He needs to step up or stop inflating the story. Best of luck in your pursuit.
2007-02-28 15:58:24 · answer #5 · answered by stephenmwells 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Get him to move out they r pretty sad parents if that dont want wats best for him. He is being used!!! Isnt there another family member he can live with.
2007-02-28 15:52:20 · answer #6 · answered by wildpalomino 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He can apply for a student loan and work while he is a student. He should ask his guidance counselor for help and he can contact various colleges. His parents are cruel and nasty.
2007-02-28 15:46:12 · answer #7 · answered by notyou311 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell him to grow up, move out, and escape! He needs to go where they can't find him if they are so abusive. He can go to college on his own, especially if he's already paying 'all their bills'. He can pay all his own bills.
2007-02-28 17:33:43 · answer #8 · answered by ? 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
They can't actually do anything to stop him. If he can afford to go then he should just go. Parents are supposed to support their children, not the other way around.
2007-02-28 15:46:31 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
If he's ovr 18 he can leave home and let them fend for themselves.
2007-02-28 16:45:49 · answer #10 · answered by nursesr4evr 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋