I still have feelings for my ex and I was going to ask to get back with him. Unfortunately my friends all hate hima nd think I should keep it all the way it is. But my best friend told me she lkes him, and asked me to be her matchmaker. Should I ask him out, play matchmaker, or leave everything the way it is?Help me please!!!!
2007-02-28 14:56:02 · 15 answers · asked by artluver128 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Keep it the same.
2007-02-28 14:59:33 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
If u help ur bff, u r gona get hurt. Yet, if u get back wif him, she will get hurt,.. Dis is a tough situation,...
However, before becoming a matchmaker, think first about ur feelings. Do you still truly love him or do you just miss d attention that he was giving to you. And, if you do try to pair ur bff n ur ex up, would he agree to it or will he get mad at u? U must come up with the best answers to perform something.
On the part of getting back to him, I would advice you to move on,.... Yet, if the both of you still have feelings for eachother, do get back together...
Best of Luck!!
2007-02-28 15:03:55 · answer #2 · answered by mel 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Get over it and play matchmaker. Don't hurt your best friends feelings over this. Girls are always going to be there, and if you have to learn the hard way then do it.
2007-02-28 15:05:13 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
tell her you still feel the same way for him and are not going to play matchmaker against yourself. tell her its up to him and neither of you should tell. just let him work out who he likes and wait for him to make a move. as for everything else why not flirt a bit with him and show him you still like him. but dont mention your friend. chances are she will flirt with him too and will try and make a move. so make sure he knows there are 2 girls to pick from. but either way you might loose your friend since you like the same guy. you could even make a deal with her for the both of you not to go for him. find other guys and forget about him. just keep your eye on her as she may still to for him! good luck
2007-02-28 15:03:12 · answer #4 · answered by young, hot, and Aussie! (chick) 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
do not hook ur friend up with him...it is a unwritten rule never to date one of ur friends exes...plus u still have some feelings for him, them together would only cause drama...ur best friend of all people should know that. If the rest of ur friends all hate him, there must be some reason why...don't get back with him, give it time...ur feelings will fade. so all in all leave everything the way it is!
2007-02-28 15:03:31 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Wait a minute...your "best friend" wants you to play matchmaker between her and your ex?? If I am reading this correctly there is no decision to make, sweetie. Listen to this "old woman" when I tell you...that is NO BEST FRIEND! DUMP THAT GIRLFRIEND of yours, sweetie. And if you wanna be with this fella, then you go for it! Best friends DO NOT ASK FOR THEIR BEST FRIEND'S EX!!!! No, no. Uh-uh. Not done!!! Never, ever, nope!
2007-02-28 15:02:24 · answer #6 · answered by Shannon B 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
he is your ex for a reason and whatever that reason is should factor in your decision....but your if your friends r really your friends they are looking out for you dont forget that....i say be a matchmaker if it works for them it is for a reason.....and trust me if it is not your ex you will find someone way better
good luck......u do what you think is right
2007-02-28 15:06:47 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell your friend she is being extremely inappropriate. If she doesn't back down, dump her. That's no friend. As for your ex, you should just listen to your own feelings about him. Just hope you aren't only wanting him again cause your friend does.
2007-02-28 15:02:44 · answer #8 · answered by MJ 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
your friends (aside from the friend who likes him) are your true friends, and they obviously think he is not good enough for you. the truth is, they are probably right. i would listen to them, they know what is best for you.
the friend who asked you to set her up with your ex does NOT sound like a good friend. as far as i'm concerned, all ex-boyfriends of my friends are off-limits to me, unless a LOT of time has gone by and i was sure my friend had absolutely no feelings anymore for her ex.
i think you should just stay away from both of them. good luck.
2007-02-28 15:01:30 · answer #9 · answered by jen 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think that if you went out with him before than you had your chance, I think that you should move on, go for someone else, help your friend get the hook up and good luck.
2007-02-28 15:05:33 · answer #10 · answered by sunshineangel 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'd say leave it as is. Friends don't like him, and I'm sure you all have the same friends as your best friend so they will be mad at her for hooking up with him. Just leave it all as is.
The Syko Ward
2007-02-28 15:00:39 · answer #11 · answered by The Syko Ward 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋