ok why do ladies lead guys on and then turn them down
this happened to my friend last week
me and my girl went to a movie and i brought my friend and she brought hers. (we tried to set them up) ok anyways my friend was a little shy at the beginning but he walked over and sat by her and started talking... Soon they eventually started cuddling next to each other and at the end shared a peck
So after i was talking to my friend and he told me he's going out with her but the next day he told me she dumped him because she said she didnt "need him no more"
what's up with that?
2007-02-28 14:54:58 · 14 answers · asked by Wis-Can-Sin Boi 4 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
girls lead guys on because they like the feeling of them liking them.. sometimes they aren't sure if this is the case or if they Truly are starting to like them.. and so they end up keeping leading them on because they want to keep that guy as an option "while they think about it some more"
your friend is probably an amazing guy, and no one deserves that. he will find the right girl some day who won't even have to do that, because she won't question whether or not she likes him.
i have been guilty of leading a guy on as well... without even realizing i was doing it.. i had just been loving the attention and let my hormones get in the way of my head and my true heart. when your young sometimes those dang hormones kick in and you don't know What you want. and the same question could be asked as to how come guys lead girls on and then can just dump them and get over them so easily..? this just barely happened to me too (right before i accidentally lead someone else on, so that's probably why..) and the guy lead me on for THREE weeks while he started liking some other girl. then he had his Friend tell me in a Text. not cool. guys and girls can just be so dumb sometimes. (Sorry for all the long stories and such.. just wanted to try to relate to what you said so you could realize it just happens sometimes, and most the times to the best of us.. just tell your friend that he doesn't want a girl like that anyway and deserves better because he does!!!) best wishes to you
2007-02-28 15:08:10 · answer #1 · answered by coolio 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
those are the types of girls u would call a tramp. he was there for the moment so she pretended to like him, but the next day was another story because she didnt have to be stuck with the guy. tell ur friend to just let it go and move on. he will probably run into alot of those in his life. WATCH OUT!
2007-02-28 23:01:20 · answer #2 · answered by vbolden88 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Okay, your probably about sixteen or something, but anyway. The thing is, women don't need men at all. He probably said something that irritated her or in some gave her a red flag about him, she doesn't like him, she just met him and she really has nothing to lose and she doesn't care she'll never see him again so she cuddles a little so what?
2007-02-28 22:58:33 · answer #3 · answered by TheOnly 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Perhaps it ws the extra company after all 2 is okay whereas 3 or more is a crowd.
2007-02-28 23:08:13 · answer #4 · answered by JoJoBa 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
That's to bad she treated your friend so poorly, obviously she just needed a date for the movie. All women aren't bad, he just happened to find one. The right one is out there for him. Good Luck!
2007-02-28 22:59:33 · answer #5 · answered by Suzie- Q 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
She just wanted some attention. It's better than what a lot of guys do and use girls for sex.
2007-02-28 22:58:40 · answer #6 · answered by MJ 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
A lot of girls and guys fall into this category... the LOSER category. Your friend is much better off without her.
2007-02-28 22:59:38 · answer #7 · answered by mrslang1976 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The lady changed her mind. It's kind of like when a guy says "I'll call you" and disappears.
2007-02-28 22:59:09 · answer #8 · answered by sashali 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
youth can be so shallow, learn and keep on living, you have a long life ahead
2007-02-28 22:59:06 · answer #9 · answered by mohvictor 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
That also confuses me. It's not 'girls' that's the problem. It's her.
2007-02-28 22:58:00 · answer #10 · answered by Maddi 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋