I'm in a relationship, I like my girlfriend a lot! I always knew that more than her looks, I liked her for her heart, for who she IS, now how she looks.... over the past few days I've been doubting myself. I mean, she's still the nicest person on earth, nicest at heart, and I absolutely adore that about her. But how do I know for sure that I'm attracted more to that than her looks??? (Yes, she's beautiful).
Thing is I always believed looks are not permanent, they can't drive a relationship, and I'm not the one trying to get physical with her. But I don't like it when I know that other guys are "checking her out", etc. Is all this normal? How do I know that I like her for HER more than her looks???
2007-02-28 14:51:16 · 11 answers · asked by Praveen C 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
sorry, I meant "NOT" earlier. not "now"
2007-02-28 14:55:25 · update #1
quit worrying so much...you worry so much about not worrying bout looks that its just as bad. you said " she's still the nicest person on earth, nicest at heart, and I absolutely adore that about her" if you feel that way you should no its not just bout looks quit overthinking s***, sounds like you got a great girl..be grateful and dont do anything to screw it up
2007-02-28 14:57:17 · answer #1 · answered by yea boy1 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well I just want to first say that I think you are an awesome and unique guy for asking this. It seems like guys these days automatically fall in love with a girl if she's beautiful on the outside.
Just take more time to get to know her...Have those moments where you look into her eyes and it feels like she's looking into your soul.
Then you'll know. :]
2007-02-28 14:59:04 · answer #2 · answered by genuine♥ 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It seems like you already do. You said that she was the nicest person and good at heart. Looks don't hurt. I guess you should just try getting to know her more personally, at an intellectual level. her passions, her fears, strengths, weaknesses, her ambitions, hopes, dreams, etc. childhood memories, favorite things etc.
2007-02-28 14:55:21 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
First, if you truly love her, why are you doubting yourself?
Ask yourself: When you're with her, can you just not stop looking her over, or do you pay more attention to her personality instead of her looks?
its some what normal but if you are both truly in love than you should just ignore the other guys and pay more attention to her.
If she really loves you, she won't leave you for the other guys. But chances are that she loves you for you and if you pay more attention to her personality instead of her looks, she'll appriciate you more.
2007-02-28 15:09:10 · answer #4 · answered by Juliane 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You have said well and why worry if other guys are looking and who wants something no one else will want. So that just means the beauty got you and the other part of her too.
2007-02-28 14:57:39 · answer #5 · answered by JoJoBa 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't doubt yourself. If you like this girl as much as you say you do, go for it. Girls always want to be complimented on their appearance; dont shy away.
2007-02-28 14:58:35 · answer #6 · answered by Thomas H 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
o im sorry that is hard on a guy
dude,think real hard and really question your relationship.is there much you would change?is it a big thing??
if you are really taking this much thought into this....u love this woman!!!
have fun!
2007-02-28 14:57:54 · answer #7 · answered by tayash678 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
follow your heart and the rest will follow good luck
2007-02-28 14:55:57 · answer #8 · answered by nightman122554 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Get over it.
2007-02-28 14:54:16 · answer #9 · answered by ckatsavos 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Tell her to eat more tuna.
2007-02-28 14:54:15 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋