Or is it more likely that a guy is ready to change his ways and settle down and THEN he meets a woman (and it's not necessarily her that makes him change his ways)??? Just curious...this article (http://www.people.com/people/article/0,,20013070,00.html) made me think about it!
2007-02-28 14:50:16 · 5 answers · asked by jajas 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Can you change a playa by dating him? Well, can you convince an alcoholic to stop drinking by giving in to his demand that you buy him another pitcher of beer?
Seems that the answer is obvious.
A person has to want to change himself, for his own good, if the change is going to last. Don't expect another person to change for you, hon.
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BTW, the link to the article isn't working.
2007-02-28 14:56:41 · answer #1 · answered by Randy G 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Honestly, I don't think it's possible. I mean I can't speak for everyone but I can say that I think players will mature when they're ready... its usually just a phase... between the ages of 18 and 25... not ALL guys go through this and not ALL guys out-grow it... but don't try to change someone... then it's not real and you may never trust him. It'll happen in it's own time.
2007-02-28 15:22:17 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
No one can change anyone. A woman can't change a man and a man can't change a woman. When someone is ready to stop playing and settle down, only then will that happen. Sometimes players never change............
2007-02-28 15:13:38 · answer #3 · answered by Suzie- Q 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No. It's a big mistake for a woman to think she can change a man. Only the man can change the man. You'll wind up divorced, just like my next door neighbor - she thought her guy would change once she married him. What a laugh. It lasted less than a year.
2007-02-28 14:55:44 · answer #4 · answered by jhartmann21 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i dont know who did all the crazy *** stuff with me butt she deserve some wang and I can serve it hot and cold so yeah someone helped me . Wierd symbolic stuff all over my house like everyday ..
2007-02-28 14:57:19 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋