im13.i have a big sister, shes 19, STILL lives with us, and I HATE HER!! more than anyone i know in the world!!when i was younger she used to hit my big sister sometimes, whos 17 now, and me and my little sister for not doing what she said. she stopped about 2 years ago but i still f***in hate her for that. then about a year ago she started putting on this whole 'im a precious angel' act, and my parents are like all christain and stuff and so they want us to act like that, and my mom buys her all this sh**, my dad even got her a LAPTOP cuz he said she needed it for college wich is some f***in bull cuz i asked for one for me n my lil sis to share for xmas [cuz our comp SUX]and he said no! and she had a job so she coulda paid for it herself! she steals all my sh** w/o asking! she took my conditioner and used it,took my nailpolish remover n used like all the rest, she just comes in and takes whatever she likes and I HATE IT!! god i hate her so much! please help me
2007-02-28 14:39:49 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Family
Wow.
you have a lot of rage...
do you realize how much power you are giving her?
I think you need to stop focusing so much on her and her life and start enjoying yours. Who cares if you parents are helping her, I'm sure they will help you when you go to college.
Life is Way Way Way too short to hate anyone or be that angry. When you grow up, you will realize that there are no people in the world more important than your family because no one will love you the way they do (including your sister even if you don't see it now) Friends will leave, and people will stab you in the back, but your family will love you no matter what. Why don't you start being the sister you wish she was and you will notice a huge change.
I'm sorry you are having a tough time right now.
2007-02-28 15:10:18 · answer #1 · answered by katiebug 5 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Hey girl--
I can relate to you. I am the middle child, and I have two sisters. They are a pest at times and literally my older sister and I are constantly battling...I yell at her all the time...she takes my things without asking and it drives me crazy...and you'll find me swearing and screaming at her. I guess either warn her, tell your parents, or catch her on the action. It'll make her feel stupid. For instance when my older sister nags me I literally put her down saying she acts younger than I do..try saying the most negative things to show her shes no better than you. I know it is very childish and i know its wrong but whatever sisters fight. do what you gotta do and show her whos boss and whos shes messing with!!
2007-02-28 23:16:00 · answer #2 · answered by l_son88 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I have to agree with Maddi on this one. No offense to the other answers but you need to address this situation with your sister and your parents. You maybe surprised at the response your sister gives you. I have a sister that used to hit me in the head with a block of wood, she would wait for me to get off the school bus and chase me around the yard until she was able to knock me unconscious. I had to find a way to forgive her. You will never be able to forget what she does to you but you can learn to forgive.
2007-02-28 23:23:33 · answer #3 · answered by ~Sheila~ 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Tell her to stop or else you will start taking her things and see how she will like it. Do not develop a hatred but let her know where you stand and enough is enough.
2007-02-28 23:46:04 · answer #4 · answered by JoJoBa 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
omg! you are just another me! first of all we look alike. and second of all I HATE MY SISTER too! she is exactly like the sister you hate except she's 17. but she does the same damn s*** that your sister does. i almost killed her once. she is such a f****in B****! I HATE HER!!! I know this doesnt really answer your question but at least i can relate to you. im also 13 btw.
2007-02-28 22:48:20 · answer #5 · answered by samantha 3 · 1⤊ 2⤋
I think you should just tell her everything you said here. If she understands and apologizes then forgive her, if she doesn't, you should probably talk to your parents about it.
2007-02-28 22:46:01 · answer #6 · answered by Maddi 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
time to get things right, huh? so your ***** sister keeps on making your life sooo miserable and you're just so ******' sick about it? well, act like her. let her feel how you feel. actually, i think you should act worse than how she does! amke her life even more miserable than yours.
2007-02-28 22:59:26 · answer #7 · answered by CB 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋