How do you know if your boyfriend is going to break up with you?

Answer 1

Here are 12 signs he wants to break-up with you:


S/he is suddenly busy all the time, and never seems to have time to spend with you. When you find yourself becoming less and less of a time priority, even if the reasons for the distance seem logical, it is never a good thing.

You find that only your fingers do any walking. If you are the only one who ever picks up the phone, especially if the phone calling used to be split pretty equally, break up bells should start ringing.

When you call, more often than not you are asked to leave a message. Be it a parent, sib or friend, if somebody else always seems to answer the phone and take a message you are probably being screened, and we don't screen people we want to talk to!

S/he says s/he is one place but is really another. People do not tend to lie for no reason, if s/he is not being honest about where s/he is or who s/he is with there is rarely a noble reason for the deception.

You don't seem to connect anymore. Remember how when you were first getting together you would run into each other in unexpected places, like between classes or at the mall? If these "accidental" meetings become less common place it may be no accident at all.

Her/his friends seem distant. When somebody wants out of a relationship they often let their friends in on the secret well ahead of time. If your steady's friends seem less friendly it is a good indicator that they know something you don't and that it probably isn't good.

The lovin' is gone! When affection and PDAs (public displays of affection) start to dwindle it could mean the fire of love is also going out.

S/he starts introducing you to new people as "a friend". If s/he is calling you a friend that is all s/he sees you as -- bottom line.

You seem to be fighting a lot about little things. Lots of little fights often mean much bigger things are really at issue.

Kissing and telling. Respect is a relationship essential, once it has been compromised the relationship often follows suit.

You just can't seem to do ANYTHING right. Be it the style of your hair or the way you walk, if your steady suddenly finds fault with everything you do s/he is probably trying to push you away.

You aviod any conversation that begins with "we have to talk" or "I don't know how to say this." If your steady is using these opening lines a break up speech usually follows. If you are avoiding conversations that start like this it is probably because you sense that a break up is near and think that if you avoid the talk it won't happen. You are wrong. If a person wants out of a relationship they will get out whether you let them tell you or not. Avoiding this talk is just prolonging the inevitable.

Answer 2

On the surface, he might seem shallow, if he's breaking up over a haircut. However, the reason he gave you indicates that it isn't that simple. He seems like a guy that wants a girl to look feminine, and some people don't find many of the shorter styles to be very feminine. If this is something deeply important to him, and if he is really important to you, best thing would be find some way to style your hair so that it isn't a unisex-type look. Think about how you would like to date a guy with a long, feminine hair style. You can go short and still look like a girl. If you can't do much with the hair (not really familiar with that cut), try dresses, and some make-up, and see if that helps him out a little. Don't get too down on the guy, though; he could have peer pressure because of this. Yes, it's your hair, and you can do what you want, but he's got a right to opinions on it, and mutual respect can help sort this out. Get some time and talk to the guy. See what you can work out. If it doesn't work, maybe it wasn't meant to; don't get too broken up.

Answer 3

when he walks up 2 u and tell u ''we need 2 talk'' then he''ll will tell u 2 break up and say ''i do not think this is workin out'' kkk more answers ask me at [e-mail] by:Ailin ♥ ♥ ♥!!!!!!!!!!!!

Answer 4

WEN HE LOZE THE LOOK OF <3 HAERT LUV <3 IN HIZ EYEZ

Answer 5

when he dont tell u he loves u no more when he stop touching u ...when he dont look uin the eye no more....if he saays we need too talk it dont always mean that hes gonna break up its sometimes about sex............

Answer 6

sad thing is, guys are wusses they will just treat you like ****, ignore you, and try to get you to dump them

Answer 7

oh your not gonna answer this one. I would love to know.

Answer 8

somehow someway he will tell you...or he will just never speak to you again

Answer 9

When he says "We need to talk".

Answer 10

he will ignore u