Okay I thought we had agreed on child support & child custody now 5 days before we are suppose to go back to a San Diego judge, his lawyer sends something to my lawyer saying they don't agree to a couple of things.
1) He want 50/50 physical custody.
I understand the meaning my problem is in the last 3 months since we decided visition him with 9% and me with 91%, he has back out about a lot & only had her 5%. I have kept a journal since she was born. HE DOESN'T KNOW THAT
What should I do?
2) 50% of child care.
I am a ms student, I work about 18hrs a wk as a book keeper(I can take her with me). Right now he refuses to go with a daycare. He wants her to have nannies full time. I have a nanny and he has one that's how we split it. I told him after 5/20 I could no longer afford nannies and since I get funded for child care we should go with the day care on campus. He still wants a nanny in his office one day a week. Should I have to cover half or that? or only the daycare.
Help
2007-02-28 14:30:55 · 3 answers · asked by maxtonamvl 3 in Pregnancy & Parenting ➔ Other - Pregnancy & Parenting
Good for you documenting everything. So many people don't and then they don't have anything to back up their claims. Don't give in or you'll be stuck with more than 50% custody, but not enough support. If he can become more consistent about his visitation then you can revisit the issue.
2007-02-28 14:36:01 · answer #1 · answered by Heather Y 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
1. take the journal to court with you. i don't think any judge is going to grant 50/50 to a father who can't even fulfill 3%
2. if he wants nannies, make him pay for them
2007-02-28 22:48:29 · answer #2 · answered by redpeach_mi 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i think that the nanny thing he should pay for a nanny if he wants a day care he should pay for day care
but you need to focas on what you are going to do with your child .......
in other words ... let him pay for it
2007-02-28 22:44:26 · answer #3 · answered by jokejoker09 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋