most of the time she has earphones listening to music too and how can i just say hi she probably wont hear me...and i dont know her the bus is half empty and if i sit right next to her it will seem strange...what will i say? how can i get her attention? Also sometines as i am switching classes i see her waiting out of her other class...she doesnt have earphones on then but i dont have time to stop and even if i did how would i go about just talking to her....I got no game, I am shy...but i want to overcome it cause what can i say i think i like her....i need help.....how can i not look strange i never spoke to her before
2007-02-28 14:21:24 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
just be cool and talk to her like if you were talking to one of your buddies, maybe ask her something about the device she uses (iPod, etc) or the type of music she is listening to, or where she gets the music from?...don't be shy, unless she is a total jerk things will go just fine...also unless she keeps going keep it brief, after the first approach you can then talk to her a little more the second time, etc. hope this helps!
2007-02-28 14:29:30 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
well...it may look strange sometimes, but not always...identify some special feature in her, say hair style, smile, etc...but should be something related to the person and not things...just go to her, give a compliment about it and walk off....u can say something like " u have a cute smile...i like it!! "....then dont stand there for a reply, just walk off....do this frequently (giving compliments)...it can be a good start, u can develop upon that!!
2007-02-28 22:33:12 · answer #2 · answered by arun 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you say nothing she will hear that too. Talk to her if only to say Hi. Maybe remark about something in school, or the weather, or national issues.
2007-02-28 22:29:21 · answer #3 · answered by Nort 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't worry about looking strange. Be straight with her. Tell her you've seen her before and think she's worth getting to know.
2007-02-28 22:27:21 · answer #4 · answered by jed 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hi,when she is not wearing earphones just say hi,no big deal.Ask her how she is.Don;t be shy.The shy duck gets nothing.Just be yourself.Pretend its your sister or something.Things will happen.Good luck.
2007-02-28 22:28:47 · answer #5 · answered by giff01 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
say hello my name is and i secreatly have a crush on her look into the windows of the soul and say can i git to know you
2007-02-28 22:25:57 · answer #6 · answered by peter w 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋