I know it is strange but my friend says that she would like to, but I wasn't sure if it's normal... she's never dated or had a boyfriend or anything. So I'm just wondering of it's just a phase or is it a real thing or what... has anyone else ever felt the same way?
2007-02-28 14:11:03 · 18 answers · asked by Suya 4 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I have heard of women that like to role play a rape scenerio, but I would not recommend it to anyone that is not either married or very very comfortable with each other with a strong sense of trust.
It's good to have a "safe" word.
2007-02-28 14:15:30 · answer #1 · answered by John P 6 · 0⤊ 1⤋
You know it's really sad when a person actually wants someone to violate them in the worst way possible. Watch her get raped someday and wonder what the hell she was thinking. I was molested when I was 4, and you NEVER get over it! It never goes away, you can still see that day vividly in your mind like it were yesterday, and that never goes away. Its the worst thing in the world. I think it would be a good idea for you to contact like a center that helps women that were raped and ask them if she could attend a session with a young girl that was raped and make her listen to every vivid detail of how she was violated and then see if she still wants to be abused. And then maybe go to the police station and have someone show her pictures of someone that was raped and murdered and see if she still wants it.......maybe that would knock some sense into her???
2007-02-28 22:25:04 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hmm, for some people, mock abuse can be quite a turn on. But remember that for all sexual fetishes, it's only alright if both parties are consenting. I'm sure your friend wouldn't be very happy to be sexually molested against her will.
Humans tend to have an urge to explore their darker sides, and there's really no harm in that when everyone involved is of age and no one is actually harmed in the process.
2007-02-28 22:16:54 · answer #3 · answered by Ringo 1 · 2⤊ 0⤋
maybe its just her curiosity that makes her feel that way but we know what they say about curiosity. Then again, it might be one of those weird fetishes that she is in to. I would ask her to get some psychiatric help and then see what happens. Could be that maybe she is desperate for attention and thinks that this is the only way that she will feel wanted. Maybe she is insecure cause like you said, she has never had anyone before and feels that the only way she will be with anyone is by this. Get her to talk to someone about it and then see what happens if she will feel the same way after. If not, get her to speak to someone who has gone through this experience and let them give her first hand account of what it actually feels like.
2007-02-28 22:20:58 · answer #4 · answered by osito 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
hi,
it is called a fetish and there are several out there from the samples ones to some like tat one and even worse, if she has never had a boyfriend then she doesn't really know hat she truly wants and you should keep an eye on her. she got that from somewhere and id not sure what she is talking about.
2007-02-28 22:22:06 · answer #5 · answered by Sonya K 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well, sexual abuse is not a joke or a fun thing (i know that from personal experience unfortunately) but people do crazy things for attention. for example, a girl at my school was pretending to be drunk/high (like not jokingly, like REALLY pretending to be drunk/high), almost getting herself expelled, but when they gave her a breathalizer test, no alcohol showed up in the test and any tests for drugs came back negative. it's amazing what people will do for attention. (the grl does have drug and alcohol problems though, so that wasn't a one time thing)
2007-02-28 22:20:10 · answer #6 · answered by Kirby 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well, some people like the feeling of vulnerability when it comes to sexual actions, so i guess she's not that strange, but even so, i hope for her sake that she doesn't want to *actually* be abused. certainly she could slip that into her sexual performances, but real abuse, that's just unfortunate and wrong.
2007-02-28 22:15:29 · answer #7 · answered by begeeman13 6 · 2⤊ 0⤋
I've never felt that way, but you're friend may want to seek counseling. She might already be abused, and is crying out for help.
2007-02-28 22:14:45 · answer #8 · answered by Jess 5 · 1⤊ 1⤋
That is a really horrific fantasy for someomne to have~! I seriously take offense to this~! I would like to know how your friend would think that it would be great to be sexually abused....Maybe one day that will happen and when it does ask her if she liked it~!
2007-02-28 22:18:58 · answer #9 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋
i didnt want to be sexually abused i just wanted to give some good loving then it turned out i got spanked and my hair pulled and got bitten by the other person i really did not like it but you might
2007-02-28 22:15:30 · answer #10 · answered by peter w 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋