ok so this boy asked me out and i said no because i wasnt ready for a boyfriend. but a couple of months later he tells me that never mind he found out that this girl liked him for hekka long and he likes her now . but i kinda cant get him out of my head now. so what should i do?
2007-02-28 14:06:23 · 17 answers · asked by theoneandonly 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
forget him, anyone who uses the word "hekka" isnt worth your time.
xoxo, lawrence.
2007-02-28 14:09:50 · answer #1 · answered by Lawrence M. Enopee 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Try to resist the temptation to like someone just because another girl has accepted him. You have not given up a chance on Prince Charming or any of that Cinderella garbage.
The boy is clearly trying to make you jealous by playing hard to get. You are better off not playing games, but rather being confident about who you are.
If you can't get the boy out of your head, be aware that if you hang around him a lot and be nice, he will know what you are doing.
When you are ready to date, you'll know. You might be on the edge of being ready right now. Relax. Being young is very confusing. Don't freak out. Get some sleep. You'll be able to think more clearly tomorrow.
2007-02-28 22:14:22 · answer #2 · answered by God_Lives_Underwater 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
JEALOUSY IS POWERFUL. He is either really smart or in a good position to reap the benefits. What you feel now is perfectly normal. Silly girls.
Think about it, WHY THE HELL WOULD HE TELL YOU A FEW MONTHS LATER? If he really moved on, then you wouldn't be worth telling. Get it? He digs you. So act like it. Be chill and laugh about it. You might want to actually suggest he go out with her (In a cool, relaxed way), cuz he will be like "Damn... she's different." and he will probably feel what you feel now.
Total reversal. Please ignore other people's stupid advice. Thanks,
Franklin
2007-02-28 22:13:32 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Now That's a hard one. Maybe he said that just to get you jealous and try to get you to ask him out. I would see if that girl is really someone and not made up. Then, if she is someone that does exist and what i would do is ask him that you change your mind and that maybe you want to get together sometime. It might work if you try.
2007-02-28 22:12:21 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
KILL HIS GIRLFRIEND...
i mean he's probley just dating her to make u mad..Tell him how u really feel..And maybe you two will hook up=) i kno that's what i would do..i mean if he really like's you like he claimed he did "that once" then he probley has feeling for you still..If he really want's to be with you then he will understand his true feeling for you...And if that don't work still kill his gf and just find someone else ur probley a smart and pretty gurl...Anyone would love to date you...So..Yeah...
i hope this can help and yes i kno guy's r strange i am having boyfriend problem's myself... (lOl)
2007-02-28 22:16:19 · answer #5 · answered by Kimmy kimkim 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
When you have it you dont want it, then when you dont have it you want it.
I would say try and forget about him... easier said than done but he really is gone and there is no need to throw yourself after him.
Whatever happens dont be too hard on yourself
2007-02-28 22:14:49 · answer #6 · answered by Tae B 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
sounds like the skater boi song eh, well bad luck really, plenty more fish in the sea, so go hook one!
2007-02-28 22:13:21 · answer #7 · answered by otsy 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Get over him
I promise you there are other guys out there waiting for you.
2007-02-28 22:09:33 · answer #8 · answered by Rhythm Nation 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if i was you i would try to forget about im and find someone else or just plain out ask him, hey u bug me alot do u like me and wnat to go out eith me if so then do it then if not then leave me alone
2007-02-28 22:11:06 · answer #9 · answered by ? 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Tell him that it was too bad that you are ready now that you are sorry you weren't ready when he was and then wish him luck.
2007-02-28 22:10:33 · answer #10 · answered by luckystar53 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋