I have been so stressed out lately. I have little patience when usually i have al ot more than most people I know. I just got out of a 5 & half year relationship. My ex who just turned 31 met his 18 yr. old g/f on the internet & let her move in. We were together at the time & I told her & she didnt care she just kept on persueing him. Everyone tells me how i'm so much better off w/out him, but he makes me feel like I will never get a man better looking than him. He makes me feel fat, & ugly. He calls me fat when his g/f is the same size maybe alittle bigger than me ( she dont realize it). He is w/her cuz supposively she's getting a big inheretence when she is 21 from her grandfather that passed away (she is such a storyteller that its hard to see if shes telling truth) I am very hurt they kiss infront me I sometimes think she does it on purpose. He talks so much crap about her to me. He wont allow me to have male friends over in my house. I dont know what to do anymore. I am loosin it
2007-02-28 13:56:05 · 5 answers · asked by val26 3 in Health ➔ Mental Health
If this is your house KICK THEM OUT! If not get youself out of there now. You deserve better then this. You are worthy of a better man like this. As to his looks it is all icing, but the inside is rotten. He is obviously verbally abusing you. You need to look after you and firstly that means getting out of this situation. You may need to have some counselling to help deal with your depression and the issues you have about your self esteem. Remember this, you are worthy of having a man in your life who treats you well and loves you for who you are. This man is NOT the man.
2007-02-28 16:08:43 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hi Val, this guy is obviously a jerk so me not even knowing you can tell that YOU HAVE TO GET AS FAR AWAY FROM THIS GUY AS POSSIBLE!! Abusers will try and isolate you from everything. And i can uderstand why you have this stress in your life and depressed. A lot of people, men and women go through a story like this one. You know what to do sweety already!! Its just doing it thats hard. And since you have a computer meeting other men that are good looking is easy now adays. SHoot I.M. me if you want. im single!!
God Bless you sweety!!
2007-02-28 22:10:26 · answer #2 · answered by Elias 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Is this your house? How old are you? You are being used, hon, kick his *** out. You can do it. You are a woman, human, stop being stepped on. Get some back bone. You are not a bad person, you have to keep telling your self you can live with out this man. He is a jerk. He may be good looking, but looks aren't everything, as you are learning. Get rid of them both.
Good luck.
2007-02-28 22:15:10 · answer #3 · answered by sissy gg 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
When you said you are losing it, you actually said what you need to do.... lose him. He is abusing you and so is she. You can do it. Leave now and don/t look back. He deserves her lies. You do not. Have confidence in yourself. He is destroying your confidence so don/t stay. Go stay with friends or family until you can get on your feet. OK you may not listen and do this, but it is never too late. I wish you the best.
2007-02-28 22:20:18 · answer #4 · answered by joyo 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Take care of yourself and forget about him. Let go and move on with your life.
2007-02-28 22:08:51 · answer #5 · answered by OTTO 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋