In my 3 and a half months of motherhood...:) I've learned:
#1. Books and other moms don't know YOUR baby so trust your intuition.
#2. You do not need diaper cream all the time. Just make sure baby's bum is clean and DRY before you put on the new diaper. Use a little cornstarch, NOT talc. And if you do get a diaper rash make sure babe's bum is dry before you apply the cream or else you just trap the moisture making it worse.:)That was my unfortunate experience...
#3. Really listening to their cries does make a difference, and babies don't always HAVE to burp. So don't freak out if they don't. Just try for a bit but if no burp happens and they seem content don't worry. Plus not all babies like to be interupted while they eat...so if you stop after the suggested "burp after every ounce" and the babe screams bloody murder...they just want their babba back the burp can wait.
#4 You will "GET IT" ALL of "it" everything gets settled eventually so always breath and don't panic. :)
2007-02-28 14:37:38
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answered by lucy 1
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Choose your battles (as someone else said). I've learned that what my kids wear and how their hair looks isn't nearly as important as the pride they have in dressing themselves and the independence that they've created. I've learned that a t-shirt full of paint is worth the price of a masterpiece created in joy. The house being clean is nice, but not at the price of our family's happiness. I've learned that nearly everything can be put in the oven on warm, and if the time spent with kids is good, nobody cares that the chicken is a little tough, or the rice is dry, it'll be a gourmet meal to them because it was made through love.
I've also learned that other moms at the grocery store are more than happy to judge you on your parenting based on a two minute viewpoint of your kids strewn with paint and dirt while you run to the store for milk to cook supper.
2007-02-28 17:02:50
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answered by ? 6
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try Alateen. that's a company that provide you with help to little ones with alcoholic mothers and dads. I confess to analyzing expensive Abbey and he or she recommends it. look it up on your yellow pages or on line and contact right now. interior the advise time, whilst your mom is ingesting, stay out of her way and shop your self risk-free. She is an exceedingly unhappy individual and is risky to you. no person has the main appropriate to bodily or verbally abuse you and that's strictly what she is doing. you are able to document actual violence to a doctor and that they'll document it to the police and baby shielding amenities may well be introduced in. you are going to be able to finally finally end up in some form of facility yet you would be risk-free. you additionally can communicate on your counselor in college or any minister or priest at any church. you do not could be a member to ask for help. shop asking human beings for help until you get what you like. in case you ever worry on your risk-free practices, call the police your self and get out. they'll take you someplace. i'm so sorry to pay attention it is occurring to you. You deserve lots extra useful. i wish you detect a answer and help. good success sweetie.
2016-10-16 23:51:08
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answered by schwalm 4
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Dont sweat the small stuff! You can drive yourself crazy trying to keep a toddler clean and it doesnt work- so a little dirt wont kill them. If the furniture doesnt get moved when you vaccuum -no one will see it!! Finger painting is more important than washing dishes. Ants always escape the ant farm. And no child who promised to take care of their pet ever does!
2007-02-28 15:15:31
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answered by elaeblue 7
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The severity of a poopy diaper can be summed up by how many wipes it takes to clean up (one-wiper, two-wiper, three-wiper...my worst ever was a six-wiper).
I thought of another one: A newborns fingernails may be sharp as razors, but when you cut them it feels like you're clipping skin they are so soft.
2007-02-28 13:57:51
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answered by Heather Y 7
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To stop and hug them regardless of what I'm doing at that moment. My children are now grown and the things I NOW know is that the dust can wait, but those little arms couldn't...
2007-02-28 13:58:31
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answered by Shannon B 1
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to pick my battles...not everything matters...will it matter in 80 years from now, or not ? the lighter side...how high maitenance they are....not what you think...more like nail trimming, ear washing, teath brushing, floss, rinse and flouride, hair cuts, bandages, fevers, diareah, on and on and on....best investment my husbad and I have done in other human beings...yes, 1 mom, 1 dad, 7 kids ages 3-15 good luck
2007-02-28 14:01:20
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answered by mammajamma 2
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Don't worry about a clean house! It's not the house that matters, it's your kids!
2007-02-28 14:10:19
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answered by Cassandra K 2
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