If you love a person right now, but you somehow know in the future that you will never get to be with that person because that person will marry a different person other than you.
Would you still spend time together with the person you love right now? yes/no? thoughts/comments?
2007-02-28 13:51:48 · 11 answers · asked by Romeo 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
lol, I neglected 3 answers that didn't really apply, so left with 8 answers... 50% between yes and no wow hehe...
Also, we know that we both love each other...
2007-02-28 14:58:24 · update #1
no i don't think i would because why waste love on someone who won't love you as long as you love them ..... and i believe there is time out there to find love and get love so stop loving that person and try to move on .... i think it will happen when god wants it too so try to forget about the one you love and find someone to love you back that is what i was always told
2007-02-28 13:59:42 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, when we are younger, preteens up to teens we experience love so when we grow older we understand it more, etc. That's why we have crushes and get boyfriends, so just in case we don't make a mistake in the future. It actually depends if you spend together with the person you love right now. I mean, are you like a teen, cuz if you are, you will be lucky to marry your highschool boyfriend. Most people find their love at work, a different country, or just a random spot someplace.
2007-02-28 22:01:49 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you are in love with the person you are seeing and they feel the same way, you have no idea what will happen in the future. I would think it would turn out well. No idea how you would KNOW that they are going to marry someone else. Spend the time and see where it goes. If it's love, it's worth it!
2007-02-28 21:58:23 · answer #3 · answered by debrenee211 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes I would spend time with the person cause even though you think the person she will marry is not you, it could definitely be you being you're wanting to spend time with her and is in love with her now. So why don't you put the negative thoughts on the back burner for now and await the outcome.
2007-02-28 21:58:02 · answer #4 · answered by JoJoBa 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
it may be hard to still be close to a person you have feelings for, when u know that it is impossible to be with them
but take the time that you have together and cherish that still.
friendships are the next best thing, or in some cases, better than relationships. Becuase it is harder to let that person go altogether, then still be friends.
friends still talk, hang out, go places, and you can still have fun with that person.
that is my opinion on the matter.
-- Sam
2007-02-28 21:59:43 · answer #5 · answered by Sam 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
have you thought about telling this person how you feel? If you haven't i think you really should, and who knows maybe they will have the same feelings. But if you have already told them and they didn't feel the same way, maybe it is time to stop torturing yourself and start to separate yourself from that person. It will be a lot easier to get over them if you do not see them or spend time with them. Best of Luck!
2007-02-28 21:57:27 · answer #6 · answered by mccokay22 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i don't really believe that you can know for certain what will happen in the future...so, yes, spend time with this person if you love him/her. you never know how it'll turn out...
2007-02-28 21:56:14 · answer #7 · answered by trillian 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Why waste time on someone that will not be available. You can remain friends but do no hang onto hope when it isnt possible. Find someone who cares for you as much as you would care for them. Hanging on to someone you cant have just makes for a harder fall.
2007-02-28 22:04:10 · answer #8 · answered by itybittykitty 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
wow ummm i would say yes but then the thought of knowing that there is not a future for us would bug me like crazy and i just couldnt do it.
2007-02-28 21:56:16 · answer #9 · answered by virgo2207 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't love anyone right now.
2007-02-28 21:55:02 · answer #10 · answered by Justin 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋