he is my cousin's ex!!! should i keep on dating him?? please help!!!?

Question

my cousin dated a guy (victor)for 2 yrs. we all go 2 the same club, n about 2 weeks after their brake up he asked me 2 dance w/ him. she saw me with him n didnt say anything...a week after that she got another bf...who she married in 2 months. since then victor n i have been seen each other very often. he comes 2 my house, n we just love being around each other. the only thing that gets on our way is the fact that he dated my cousin that is my neighbor (i come from a really close family n r each others neighbors) since then my aunts,uncles, n the rest of the family look @ me weird n act so distant (not that they liked me much b 4 anyway) he tells me he wished he had never dated her, but if it weren't 4 her we wouldn't of ever met. recently he comes 2 my house drunk telling me that we shouldnt see each other b cuz between us there could never be anythin b cuz' of my family so its better 2 let go now b4 he falls more in love, when he isnt drunk he says we shouldnt care. what do i do?

Answer 1

Ask your cousin in front of your family, including her husband if shes okay with you seeing him. Tell her you really like him, and mention that now that she's married, it's not like she's going to be with him again. That should get you right off the hook as far as that's concerned.
--Lee Ann

Answer 2

Does your cousin know about your relationship with him? If she does and is fine with it, (which if she is married now, she shouldn't really care) I say keep seeing him if he is worth it. If your cousin doesn't have a problem with it the rest of the family shouldn't either. The only thing that would bother me is the drunken stupers. Is this frequent? If it is, he may have other issues going on.

Answer 3

no thats so mean to your cousins dont be mean to your cousin she cares about you