ok this is for non smartellic ppl.....i'm 14 and a very sexual person and i realize it and i dunno wat to do about it when i'm around my guy friends if u or ur daughter was like this wat can/should i do to not be like this everytime i'm around my guy friends
2007-02-28 13:44:13 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Pregnancy & Parenting ➔ Parenting
and i'm not sleeping with them b/c they're just my FRIENDS
2007-02-28 14:31:01 · update #1
it's just normal i wouldn't worry too much about it as long as ur not doing ne thing with them and as long as they don't say ne thing bad about it
2007-03-01 15:18:49 · answer #1 · answered by ♥~Jeff Hardy's babe~♥ 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It is normal to feel very sexual at age 14. That is puberty talking. Give yourself a few years and you will start to feel more "normal".
You shouldn't start having sex at this young age though, it isn't safe or healthy. If you are considering this then talk with an adult you can trust. You can also go to planned parenthood confidentially. You might also look into sexing yourself...
Just know it's normal, it's your hormones. Keep your mind busy on something else and be physically active in sports or something similar.
2007-02-28 17:47:10 · answer #2 · answered by RedPower Woman 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You might be a sexual person but dont have sex with them. You could contract an STD or get pregnant. You dont want to be pregnant at the age of 14. If you do sleep with someone, use protection EVERY time!
2007-02-28 13:49:51 · answer #3 · answered by Amanda 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you were swimming at the beach and I saw a shark coming close to you....would I yell......SHARK SHARK SHARK? or let you be eaten up by this big fish with sharp teeth?
I feel as if you are on the beach right now and you are in dangerous waters....when you are active at an early age having sex, you are taking chances with your life. You can get sexually transmitted diseases, get pregnant, feel nervous worrying if you are going to get caught, your grades are going to be low because you are constantly thinking about this way of living. Also if you give yourself to a young man early believe me he is not the one who will want to marry you later in life. He will think of you as being cheap....and he will look for a virgin to be his wife. You can go ahead and live anyway you want but in the end you have to pay a price....with your mental health from worry or being talked about by others.....your life would be so much nicer if you didn't have sex until you were older....and responsible for your welfare for your physical health and mental health...your mind should be on your education, or joining a sport's team or singing in the chorus at school....or babysitting or going on trips with family and friends....going to the mall with your friends and not thinking about what you would be doing with a young man in private ....sex can take over your whole mind...and rob you of your youth your wonderful teen years....please think hard about the way you want to live....don't rush into adulthood....take your time and get your education ....keep yourself clean until you are ready for serious dating and marriage...you can be proud of yourself ...to take a stand and say NO....because it's the best thing to do right now in your life. Young men will respect you and you will respect YOURSELF....
Best wishes,
Mama Jazzy Geri
2007-02-28 14:14:11 · answer #4 · answered by Mama Jazzy Geri 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I hope you don't mean sexually active when you say "you are sexual". I know you don't want to hear this but you are way to young to be acting sexual in any kind of way. I don't know who your role model is (usually its a girls mother), but if your role model acts like a tramp, maybe you need to find someone else to look up to. One other thing you should know, boys do like girls who act like tramps, but they never respect them or want them for anything other than sex. You obviously enjoy the attention you get, but it is not the kind of attention you really want.
2007-02-28 15:13:50 · answer #5 · answered by truthseeker221 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I do not think you realize it, because if you did, you would know the risks of STDS, HIV, AIDS, and pregnancy. Look up pictures of stds, aids, pregnancies, abortions, that should change your mind. If my daughter were like that, I would not let her go out, I would ask who she's been with and call them to make sure she was with who she says she was. That's what I would do if my daughter was like that. You need to quit, you are dangering yourself.
2007-02-28 13:50:06 · answer #6 · answered by mrs.russell 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
hun its totally normal!!!, masturbation is the best way to stay calmed, or get what u need with no risks, if u r just flirting with them, its fine!! enjoy ur age and dont act stupid
2007-02-28 19:53:10 · answer #7 · answered by bmcsporran 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
better get help from a counselor
or if you wanna stay anonymous
call a teen help hotline.
you need to talk to a person who would not judge you
and help sort out this dilemma you're having.
2007-02-28 14:09:46 · answer #8 · answered by jaegs 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Wait and masturbate.
2007-02-28 13:57:30 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋