k so I heard a rumour that this guy I know cheated on his girlfriend. I talked to him and he seemed really upset about it and said it was ruining his year. Then today he broke up with his girlfriend and I heard from a witness of the cheating that it actually happend he was just trying to cover everything up. I talked to him again and he said that is wasnt true and that he didnt do anything. Who should I beleive?!?!?!
its my business cause I like the guy! And he needed my advice and got me all involved in it.
2007-02-28 13:29:54 · 13 answers · asked by Chat Noir 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
No honey, it's not your business. And whether or not he asked for your advice, it's time for you to back off.
I suggest you put a good deal of distance between you and this guy for some time. If you still like him so much, take some time to observe him for a while. You should get a better idea what he's really like.
2007-02-28 13:40:36 · answer #1 · answered by katbyrd41 7 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Who has the track record of being truthful? Did his girlfriend have any ideas that he might be cheating on her BEFORE the gossip hit? Just because someone says they saw the "event" they may have either lied about it, or mistaken what they saw for cheating.
If he did in fact cheat... are you willing to accept that and then chance he will cheat on you? Just because he is accused of it does not mean he did....and for that matter it does not mean he didn't either.
So back to my first thought....who has the track record of being truthful and do the ones spreading the gossip have an "agenda".
Cheating once accused of it is hard to live down even if innocent....with cheating you are guilty till proved innocent and even then....are you really treated like an innocent person?
2007-02-28 21:44:15 · answer #2 · answered by silliw1961 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Believe the witness. He sounds like a liar who can't explain himself. And if I were you, I would try to get over him; he doesn't seem like the kind of boyfriend material.
2007-02-28 21:34:06 · answer #3 · answered by AnneMarie 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
that's a hard one to answer because you didn't see what really happened. I would just stay out of it because it's something between this guy and his girlfriend/ex-girlfriend. trust me, you don't want to get mixed up in this kind of situation because it can cause trouble for you. just try to stay friends with both of them, and let them settle their differences by themselves.
Best Wishes
2007-02-28 21:42:24 · answer #4 · answered by atiana 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Believe the guy that you know for show unless some other detection signals him as guilty and of course not the hear-says.
2007-02-28 21:34:45 · answer #5 · answered by JoJoBa 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No, it's not your business. It's just that simple.
If you have cause to believe he might have cheated, then don't date him.
If you're pretty sure he didn't, date him... that is, if he even asks. If he cheats on you, I guess you'll know.
Stop partaking in gossip. It's immature and vulgar.
2007-02-28 21:35:55 · answer #6 · answered by Tiff 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
heh, i really dont think it IS your buisness what goes on between him and his girlfreind. even if he does drag you into it.
its between her and him.
not all 3 of you.
meanwhile.
you and gossip need to go to separate corners.
yuhh.
uhm. beleive who you trust more, who youve known longer.
by their reputations..
its pretty easy stuff.
id beleve the boy..
unless you find somore incriminating evidence.
2007-02-28 21:36:17 · answer #7 · answered by ninjah_jamie 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you trust your friend believe him. You don't really have to worry since you weren't the girlfriend.
2007-02-28 21:38:16 · answer #8 · answered by debrenee211 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
first i do not do rumors but some people do and it is some time true and some time it is not,i first i wood go to god and ask and Wat to see if it is or not.
2007-02-28 21:40:08 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Eat more tuna.
2007-02-28 21:33:01 · answer #10 · answered by Toona Salid 1 · 2⤊ 1⤋