How do I get a guy to ask me out? I never been on a date, or ever been asked out by anybody. i'm plus size to. I've seen women way bigger than me get men. what am i doing wrong?
2007-02-28 13:29:32 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I got a lot of people who say i got a pretty face, and thats the only good thing they day, i'm natrally big in the chest area. Everyone says i'm a nice girl. that it, what about personality?
2007-02-28 13:52:34 · update #1
Yes, Jenny, men like curvy girls more than the skinny. But they want the curves to be the difference between the waist and the hip size! Maybe you have a large frame and this can turn guys off. The only way is to do aerobics with upper body in mind.. Your legs are probably not that large, but from waist to top, may be large compared to waist size. A fact you may not know: Men marry curvy girls more than big busted girls! If you look at ladies that have wedding rings, you will notice they usually do not have large chests. Men say one thing, then do the other! Ha. Large hips, but not fat hips, with small waist, makes them go crazy and that is with most of us men! Reduce your waist with twisting exercises such as holla hoop or the military twist with arms straight out to the side. Do this every morning and before bed. Suck your tummy to your backbone.. meaning try this and keep doing that. You do not want muscle to look good, but tone! That gets the guys... God bless. Earl
2007-02-28 13:46:40 · answer #1 · answered by ? 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Smile.
It's likely that you are not projecting a positive or happy image. Relax, stop criticising yourself, and find ways to make yourself happy. When you are feeling good, and not looking so hard for someone, they will find you.
Personally, if a woman is not at least 50 pounds overweight, I don't give them a second look. We chubby lovers are out here.
2007-02-28 13:35:37 · answer #2 · answered by joeyamas 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you need to love yourself. there's only one thing sexier than a curvy woman... a curvy woman with confidence
2007-02-28 13:35:23 · answer #3 · answered by Antoine J 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
the women bigger than you get men (but that are fat)
try losing weight
2007-02-28 13:33:56 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 2⤋