My boyfriends tells me that he loves me. But he said he isn't in love with me. He come home all time of the night but sometimes he stays home. Could he be cheating on me?
2007-02-28 13:19:54 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
do i really need to answer your question? because i think you already know the answer. speaking from experience, if you have to ask the question: could he be cheating on me? the answer is almost always YES. Intuition plays a big role in our lives and if you are feeling this way, then he probably is cheating. If you have to have "proof" then you'll have to either ask him directly or see if one of his friends/family members knows. Unless you are by nature a distrustful, paranoid person, then your feelings/intuition should not be ignored...especially if this is hurting you... I hope everything works out, Good Luck to you =)
2007-02-28 13:27:09 · answer #1 · answered by jnlen0504 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
How does he tell you he loves you but also tell you that he doesn't? He's not a good boyfriend if he doesn't really know how he feels. Don't let him cheat and then find out the hard way.
2007-02-28 21:23:36 · answer #2 · answered by AnneMarie 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Okay "love" and "in love" mean the same thing so idk whats wrong with him. You obviously do not love him if you cannot 100% trust him. He could be cheating on you, but its up to you to talk to him about it. If he is, its his loss. Guys stick. you dont need him. you deserve better if he really is cheating on you.
2007-02-28 21:24:51 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Girl LEAVE him!!! I know you probably think you "love" him but how can you "love" someone when they say they're not "in love" with you!? You need to find someone who appreciates you & is madly in love with you!!! When you do, its the greatest feeling in the world! For him to say hes not "in love" with you gives you all the more reason to think he's cheatin when he aint comin home!!!!
2007-02-28 21:25:24 · answer #4 · answered by lilshortyy05 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
My wife has an expression that I think fits this situation:
"Think the worst, and you're probably right."
Even if he's not cheating (which I think he is), it sounds like you should move on.
Good luck.
2007-02-28 21:26:44 · answer #5 · answered by Voice_Of_Reason 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
im sorry to say but ya he could be but before you jumo into sayinghe is doing it ask him about it say why do you stay home these days and not these days and tell im how you are feeling one time i felt like my boyfriend was cheatingon me and my bestfriend(his sister) told him how i was feeling and he told me that he promised he wasnt but he was kinda upsessed because I MYSELF didint talk to him about it!!
2007-02-28 21:24:22 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
i would definetely consider the fact that he might be cheating
2007-02-28 21:24:01 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
it kinda sounds like he's cheating.
2007-02-28 21:23:19 · answer #8 · answered by rach 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
POSSIBLY BUT GIVE HIM A LITTLE MORE TRUST U LOVE HIM DONT U
2007-02-28 21:23:52 · answer #9 · answered by cass1313 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't jump to conclusions. What if you accuse him and you're right , and what happens if you're wrong? think about it
2007-02-28 21:24:53 · answer #10 · answered by King John dragon-slayer 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋