I've been saving money for a long time and it took me so long to save up thousands and I'm trying to save as much money so I can live in California. I ALWAYS tell her that I'm trying to save money. She says "Ok, that's the last thing I'll ask for". And she "promises" that she'll pay me back right before she'll WEASEL out of paying me back. She did this before, I'm thinking not to do any favors anymore. She threatens me for not doing it and all of the sudden she ends up looking small one. Ha ha.
2007-02-28 13:16:40 · 7 answers · asked by in2theSky 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Family
u should never loan ur parents money they should have a job and make aliving
2007-02-28 14:24:51 · answer #1 · answered by Blondie1328 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
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2016-11-26 21:13:05 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Thats wrong of her to that to you. You keep your money unless she has a dire need for the money dont fork any over. If you keep forking over money to her you will never get to California you just keep saving your money. Cali is great I used to live there in Sacramento. GL!
2007-02-28 13:21:46 · answer #3 · answered by . 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Maybe she is trying to delay your move by dwindling down your money. I hope the money is in the bank and not at home. You really have to be firm with her and stop the money thing. I hope you can go soon.
2007-02-28 13:32:44 · answer #4 · answered by ? 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
what ever you do,dont move to sacramento. its booring here. go to l.a, or SanFran, or sandiego, but NOT sacramento!
my mom does the same thing. keep reminding her that she owes you money and she'll eventually get pissed, pay, and hesitate to ask you for money in the future.
2007-02-28 13:42:57 · answer #5 · answered by notty by nature 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Refuse to give her money. At this rate you're saving it just to hand it over to her.
2007-02-28 13:29:27 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
stop telling her you're saving money! make her think you don't have any! Next time she asks, tell her you don't have any!
2007-02-28 13:31:41 · answer #7 · answered by Tiff 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋