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Well there is this girl I kinda like, she is like my sister because she is so simalar to me, and we are working together, I am the president and she is the secretary. I called her for 3 or 4 times in the beginning of the year to get things going, but her family took it the wrong way, thining I liked her. Then one day at the meeting, we went on a walk to my locker and we discussed some of the problems I am having with the school. She told her parents that I discussed my problems with her and they suspect that I like her. She said no way, because if they met me they wouldnt think that I liked her. It is for some reason bothering me alot. I kinda dont want to run into their family because i am idk embarrsed but I didnt do anything but do my job. I am young (jr high) and kinda, not really want to date, cause I think I am too young, but I dont want to be involved with her after this and I just want to know how I respond to her and her family, cause I am seeing her tomarrow?

2007-02-28 13:11:29 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships Singles & Dating

4 answers

Don't be self-conscious about their misperceptions. It's not your fault that that's what they think. Don't be rude, but try and just act in a friednly, plutonic manner as you have been doing. It's not like they're going to expect you/force you to date their daughter. I know it can be embarrassing, but when family members get involved, it usually is :) It's all just a part of growing up and realizing, "Hey, it doesn't really matter what they think. What matters is what I think regardless of their misconceptions."
Good luck!

2007-02-28 13:18:09 · answer #1 · answered by abby j 5 · 1 0

This is a tough situation. I would say just relax and be confident in knowing that you haven't done anything wrong.

2007-02-28 21:16:49 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 1 0

Don't bother of what people think...just do what you deem is right my man!

2007-02-28 21:16:21 · answer #3 · answered by Ashley 4 · 1 0

president & secretary? junior high?

2007-02-28 21:16:13 · answer #4 · answered by Wendy C 4 · 0 1

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