When you see that person that you think you going to love forever
2007-02-28 13:07:29 · 35 answers · asked by daddy_little_farm_gurl 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Love at first sight is real. Because true love is from God. I'm a Christian, I believe in God! And for that reason I believe that there is love at first sight. God sometimes maybe lets people (like me) see right away who He intended them to love and marry.
Love is different with everyone because we are all different! You can't describe true love for anyone! Everyone's experience of loving or being in love is totally unique. Because we area all unique!
I am so tired of the people that say smugly, "i believe in lust at first sight" because they don't know. I don't have problems with lust, and I have experienced that feeling of "wow, look, there he is, the guy I was created for". I just looked at his eyes from the side and I got that feeling. I wasn't looking at his body at all.
Please believe me- that even if it hasn't happened to you, or never will, it is POSSIBLE
Please do not listen to these other people. Although they mean well, I know personally that there can be real, true, lasting love (not LUST or INFATUATION! Boy am I sick of those dumb words! People just use them to sound grownup and wierd and fancy shmancy! {not to "dis" you other folks, but that's what it seems like to me :)} at first meeting- and yes, even at first sight.
As to what it feels like... everyone is totally different. If you think you are in love, and you love someone very much, more than any one else, than you ARE in love- for the time being. You may, who knows, some day, find someone else who you will be able to love even more. Not because you didn't love the first one- you did, as much as you could at the time. But each new person you fall in love with you seem to be able to love more.
Who can say whether we are all in love a dozen times in our life, or if we only "really" love one of those people, or if we never "truly" loved any of them?
Love is different for every person, at every different time. Sometimes it makes you sad, sometime it makes you happy, sometime insecure, sometimes confident. No one knows. But if you think you're in love, then tell yourself you are and go with your emotions, whether you become mournfully melancholy or exuberantly happy. There is nothing sweeter than feeling something deeply and telling yourself you're in love, whether it's for an hour or a lifetime- or eternity.
I fell in love from first sight with someone I have only met twice in the past two years I still am. For many reasons in a long story, we can't contact each other, nor do we "date" so there isn't a questions of all that "faithfulness" junk. But I knew at the first second that I was made for him and someday God will see we marry and live happily ever after. Sometime I will type up the whole story and post it on every "love at first sight" page and question and blog in the whole wide internet.
Again, I am not saying that love at first sight is the only right kind of love. Maybe you will hate the person you eventually fall in love with! Maybe it will take you years to gradually love them! Who knows? I am not saying that it is the only true kind of love. With some people, it may take a while to fall in love with their soulmate. But love at first sight is so very possible! Sometimes the good Lord is kind enough to show you right away. Like he showed me.
The moment I saw him standing there, I knew all about him. His character- how kind and sweet he was, how helpful and patient. And don't say I was judging a book by its cover. Later in the day I met up with him again and talked to him for five hours at that wedding reception. And my first impression- that split second thought of "this is who I was created for and am meant to marry" was strengthened. And he is in my every thought and dream. I don't give a passing thought or glance to anyone else- it's just out of the question. I’ve only seen him only 3 times over the years. It’s been so long. But I still love him! I do! It’s real!
I fell in love when I was only 13. But that’s how old Juliet was, and it was love at first sight and no one questions her! No one says “Oh, Juliet was so dumb, she didn’t REALLY love romeo, she just killed herself because she THOUGHT she did”. Why should people say that about me?
There is love at first sight.
Not lust.
Not infatuation.
Not a crush.
Not a passing attraction.
Real, true, lasting, beautiful, perfect love.
Believe!
2007-03-01 03:09:41 · answer #1 · answered by nemo 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes I do believe in love at first site. Actually I saw a girl one night and just the back of her. I was sitting with another girl "friend" of mine and I told her that the girl was going to have my baby. My friend freaked out. I was NOT lusting It just came to me and I said it. However, I felt it strongly. I didn't even see her face or know her name or anything about her. SHE DID HAVE MY BABY about a year later. I can't even explain this one.
2007-02-28 13:13:51 · answer #2 · answered by andyt 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
yes, I met this man at a friends house, when a just got out of a bad relationship. A couple months later I called him up and he came over from then on we have been together, we been together for 4 years and married for 2 and also have 2 kids
2007-02-28 13:13:07 · answer #3 · answered by Rose K 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes, I didn't before, but I do now. Problem is, he didn't love me back. And anyway, I was in love with the guy he pretended to be for the first three weeks and his face. The real him was a really ugly evil soul.
2007-02-28 13:11:00 · answer #4 · answered by jam_please 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes I do. And had I known it really existed I could have saved myself so much previous pain and heart-ache. I saw my current husband about a year before I was actually introduced to him by a mutual friend. I knew exactly who he was when we were introduced. It was amazing how after so much time our friend realized that we were both needing the same thing. Each other.
2007-02-28 13:12:13 · answer #5 · answered by Ofie 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I knew the moment I spoke to my husband! We were in high school and I still knew right then. YES!!! I do believe in love at first sight! Corny but true. 17 years this year!
2007-02-28 13:11:57 · answer #6 · answered by outofmymind 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes i believe in love at first sight
2007-02-28 13:10:30 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes, to a degree. You can meet many people, but sometimes you meet that special someone and there seems to be a spark that ignites between you. There seems to be a difference between an attraction and really liking or loving someone. You somehow just know it when it happens to you.
2007-02-28 13:15:45 · answer #8 · answered by tahiti 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Um. I Knew my fiance for 1.5 years then had a dream about him. I was in love with him in my dream...about 2 wks later the word got out about my dream (in highschool) and he asked me to be his girlfriend. We have been together for 5 years. So for some, yes, maybe first second, first date, first meeting, or first DREAM
2007-02-28 13:12:19 · answer #9 · answered by Rachel H 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yep. I saw her for the first time right after she'd had her wisdom teeth out, and told her brother "That's it - she's the one." I married her a little over a year later. Still happily married 24 years later.
2007-02-28 13:11:42 · answer #10 · answered by Mangy Coyote 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes I do believe in love at first sight. It is amazing until you get hurt.
2007-02-28 13:20:32 · answer #11 · answered by Briann M 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋