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Well there is this girl I kinda like, she is like my sister because she is so simalar to me, and we are working together, I am the president and she is the secretary. I called her for 3 or 4 times in the beginning of the year to get things going, but her family took it the wrong way, thining I liked her. Then one day at the meeting, we went on a walk to my locker and we discussed some of the problems I am having with the school. She told her parents that I discussed my problems with her and they suspect that I like her. She said no way, because if they met me they wouldnt think that I liked her. It is for some reason bothering me alot. I kinda dont want to run into their family because i am idk embarrsed but I didnt do anything but do my job. I am young (jr high) and kinda, not really want to date, cause I think I am too young, but I dont want to be involved with her after this and I just want to know how I respond to her and her family, cause I am seeing her tomarrow??

2007-02-28 13:02:48 · 1 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships Singles & Dating

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Deal with it.

People often judge you unfairly in life.

And nothing can be more embarrassing than people who are trying to fix you up with their daughters.

Still -- as long as people aren't being hostile or evil, just deal with it calmly (and often even if they are).

Now, it sounds as if there might be a separate issue here, which is that maybe you DO "like" her and/or you. I suggest you have a very open discussion with her, for three reasons.

A. You like her as a person.
B. With her family involved, the embarrassment of NOT having the conversation probably exceeds the embarrassment of having it.
C. You and she might want to have a relationship of the romantic kind some day.

2007-02-28 13:55:24 · answer #1 · answered by Curt Monash 7 · 0 0

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