I'm pretty sure I have this and the biggest thing I'm struggling with is trying to have a normal relationship, but my view on everything is so different from most people, how do I show someone I care about so much that I don't mean to hurt them and if I could change how I am I would?
2007-02-28 13:00:44 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous in Health ➔ Mental Health
The fact that you have the insight to see that your hurting people, and its your the person at fault for that, and its not the other persons fault, tells me that you might not have this disorder. I work with people with BPD and their view of things is that its the other persons fault that their offened by me, I didn't do anything wrong. A BPD person isn't able to take responsibility for what they do, they often lie, and are very intrustive in peoples lives.
Speak with a phsyciatrist before you label yourself with this disorder, something else may be going on.
2007-02-28 13:05:46 · answer #1 · answered by Kellie 5 · 4⤊ 0⤋
I have borderline personality and you can try and hopefully get the person you care about to go to the doctor with you. The problem I have is that the people who claim to Love me do not want to go to get help with me. They just kicked me to curb. It is hard for them to understand as well. It is even harder for me. Because the pain that I have outweighs the joys. They just don't understand. So, educate them. If they don't want education then there is nothing else you can do except wait your fate.
2007-02-28 21:09:05 · answer #2 · answered by Don't Know 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Look into getting Dialectic Behavior Therapy, it is the most helpful treatment for those with bpd. You can google this and get some information about where to go.
2007-02-28 22:24:24 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
The best thing you could do is to see a therapist - take care of yourself and everything else will work out.
2007-02-28 21:10:34 · answer #4 · answered by Jennifer S 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋