and i want 2 get 2 kno him. he is really nice and funny. my friends think that I make it too obvious I like him. I want 2 do some reasearch on him by myself, but how do i do it casually and start convos without going all up in his face like "Whats your favorite color... Sport? I like basketball, dont you? Yea I think it rocks! So so so..."
I dont want 2 be all freaky like that but i want 2 get 2 kno him and become friendz with him but i need help and tips on how! ThAnKs!
2007-02-28 12:51:59 · 12 answers · asked by CollegeObsessed<3 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
good u have to make it obvious that u like him. First step. And actually... u do go up to him and ask him in his face. They think it's funny usually and they wont mind.
2007-02-28 12:55:47 · answer #1 · answered by Produh G 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, I like to get to know people on instant message services like AIM or MSN. They don't see your facial expressions. And, if you're on an instant message thing, be casual. Don't answer right away. That's way to obvious. But don't take 2 long or they might get annoyed. There's a delicate balance. Soon enough, you'll know if this guy is interested in you.
2007-02-28 20:57:21 · answer #2 · answered by yoyoyowatup3579 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i'd say start with the casual stuff like saying hi and then you say whats up. and when he responds you take that answer and form it into a topic sentence. so say if he says just bored say *for example*: Haven't you noticed that everyone has been bored or has nothing to say these days? and then when he responds take it to another topic like if he says ya then you can say: so.... how's life. and then say he says like a problem then you try answering it. if you want to know his favorite stuff slip it in to a conversation = ) that always works. so good luck!
2007-02-28 20:57:31 · answer #3 · answered by Sarah 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think that you should just start a conversation with him...Just ask him whatever you want but don't be all weird or freaky!Just concentrate on him and what you're saying and you'll get the info. you'll need!Trust me!Good luck!
2007-02-28 20:56:45 · answer #4 · answered by Andi 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you want to get to know about him, well try your best to be close at him, make him to be your friend, make him to laugh and dont missunderstand him. or sure if you do it you wil be happy some people making themselves to be alone to think a while on what step they make, and if they fail they never give up just try your best ok!!
2007-02-28 21:00:44 · answer #5 · answered by kent r 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
why don't u pay attention to what he does and listen to him without any one knowing that u r. yeah i love b-ball too. it is fun. flirt a little bit but not too much otherwise people will start to talk.
2007-02-28 20:57:07 · answer #6 · answered by Autumnkins 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if u go to the same school/job with him then u can talk about that and during the conversation you can lead into the subject(s) you want to talk about. you dig?
2007-02-28 20:57:38 · answer #7 · answered by TealSpring7 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just ask him!! Don't be shy, go after what you want. You'll probably find out you don't like him though.
2007-02-28 20:54:51 · answer #8 · answered by Your Mom 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you just need to talk to him have normal conversation and before you know it all the information you want to know will just come up.
2007-02-28 20:55:19 · answer #9 · answered by sweetcakes088 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
why not just ask him if he would like toget together some time. you can make it friendly and get to know him better. ....
2007-02-28 20:59:21 · answer #10 · answered by ladyjamie 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋