Ok this is really hard but theres this guy and hes one of my best guy friends and he likes me and i thought i liked him well i mean i do well did ok anyway he went on a trip today and right before he left i gave him a note telling him i liked him but he had or has a g/f and well i told myself to get over him because he had a girlfriend and today when i gave him the note during the day when he was gone i realized i am over him now and now what do i say when i see him at school tommorow??
2007-02-28 12:49:27 · 26 answers · asked by chauntel c 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
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2007-02-28 12:56:37 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
WOW. We all can see that there is an age problem here. Your growing up and maturing and your feelings will change quickly at your age. But remember that going with someone, such as "going steady", does not mean you are married! This is good because you may change your mind tomorrow! This is what happens when we allow feelings to run our life. Girls are more prone to do this than boys. Their is a big difference in brain development with the two sexes. This is why you may FEEL your way through life, instead of think your way. You will be more prone to feel than to seek facts! Breaking up will hurt a girl more than a boy most times. They have more logical thoughts and less in guided by feelings. Yes, it hurts both and some guys may never want to give up on a girl, but most get over it easier than the girl. Ha, you had a very short feeling for this guy! God bless. Earl
2007-02-28 21:03:56 · answer #2 · answered by ? 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It depends on if he says anything to you. If he likes you back, play along for a while, slowly leading him OFF, and then maybe he'll get the signal. If he doesn't, then you have to tell him lightly how you feel now, against how you felt then. If he doesn't say anything, then he's most likely a little shy and afraid to confront you. Either that, or he doesn't feel the way you did, in which case, you can't let him look down on you. You have to tell him you changed your mind, to set things straight. Next time, SORT OUT YOUR FEELINGS FIRST.
2007-02-28 20:57:33 · answer #3 · answered by AnneMarie 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
waituntil HE responds. let him b the 1 that talks to u 1st tommorow. dont go up 2 him and say "im over you and i dont like like you" because you might just ruin your whole friendship. if he asks u about the note then just tell him that you just want 2 be friends now. good luck with him and hope this helps!
2007-02-28 20:58:01 · answer #4 · answered by CollegeObsessed<3 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well , tell him you've had a mood swing , you were very confused i guess. Tell him if you guys can still be best friends again? and forget that it ever happend . I have a best friends whos a boy and we likes each other it was aqward to talk to him.. but we got over it i told him that i realy wanted to still be friends and he felt the same way Cause aparently after people brake up or go out they hate each other so best friends is thwe way to go
2007-02-28 20:55:08 · answer #5 · answered by `~White Fang~` 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Say that you didn't know what you were thinking and that it was a mistake that you gave him the note or that you just don't have the same feelings any more and that you shouldn't have given him that note.
2007-02-28 20:53:43 · answer #6 · answered by tisdale 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
OMGOSH!!! that is exactly, i mean to the tee, what happened with me!!!! wow!! freaky!!
well neways, thinks are going to be weird, but walk up to him first thing and tell him that u dont know what was going through your head when you wrote that and u dont want to do anything that would make ur friendship become ruined or ackward so if u can just forget what i wrote, id appriciate it and we can get on to just beign friends again!
2007-02-28 20:56:17 · answer #7 · answered by anysportzchik 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
tell him that you gave him the wrong note, and ment to give another one that says(i hope you have a great vacation) cause you did sorta give him something you didn't want to. and if he ask who it was tell him you don't like him anymore. but if he has to know make up a name or someone you used to like a long time ago.
2007-02-28 20:56:47 · answer #8 · answered by pinkie 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If he says he likes you too, I promise those feelings will just flood back. And if he says he doesn't, then where's the loss? I'm kidding. By the way you were speratically typing that, I'd say you still like him. Don't worry, everything will work out. ;)
2007-02-28 20:55:50 · answer #9 · answered by Twitch 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Wow, um, I barely understood that, but if it reads as I think it should, just pretend you never gave him the note. If he asks, tell him he answered your question about the g/f.
2007-02-28 20:54:03 · answer #10 · answered by scarfyrre 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just tell him that you didn't really mean it. If you are over him, don't lead him on. You won't want to confuse him or make him like you. It would be best to tell him you're over him.
2007-02-28 20:54:41 · answer #11 · answered by Catarina Malfoy 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋