she threw my daughter and i in the street which put us in a shelter for four months which made our lives a living hell i believe that if you honor your mom and dad you will live longer but how do you honor them when they did such a horrable thing to you? she is always hurting me i always try to love her but the feeling never come back to me?
2007-02-28 12:46:41 · 7 answers · asked by lene b 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Family
My mother did some horrible things to me, too, even after I spent 10 years caring for her when she was very ill. I have not spoken to her in years. Even though I did my best to honor her, there comes a point when your own (mental) health and the health of your own child have to come first. You do not have to take abuse from someone simply because that person is a blood relative.
2007-02-28 12:57:03 · answer #1 · answered by la buena bruja 7 · 3⤊ 0⤋
I know exactly how that can feel. My mother is mean to me and tries to act as if she's not. A spouse isn't the only person that you can divorce, sometimes we need to divorce family members. Don't take crap from your people you are related to just because you have the same blood. Not every relative is family, you know what I mean?
2007-02-28 13:03:50 · answer #2 · answered by sustasue 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well i know exactly how you feel, but I'm sorry i cant explain my situation.
Move away from your mother to a completely new town, take your daughter also and don't contact her. before you leave tell her tell her to dont hold her breath. Hopefully she can take a hint. i hope everything works out for the best<3
2007-02-28 12:56:12 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
You need to talk to her about it. Tell her that you love her and you want to know if she feels the same way about you. Depending on what she says there are a number of things that you could do. Just listen to your heart. I know it sounds stupid but it works. Good luck!
2007-02-28 12:52:08 · answer #4 · answered by *Dancer 4 ever* 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
WOW thats horrible! Im so sorry to hear that! Well all you have to do is at least be civil to her. She keeps hurting you and its not going to stop unless you LET HER KNOW how you feel. You need to have a heart to heart with her. GL!
2007-02-28 13:24:53 · answer #5 · answered by . 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Try telling her how you feel in written letter and if that does not work. try tough love.
2007-02-28 12:54:11 · answer #6 · answered by skyelark 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
SORRY YOU NEED TO PUT THIS AT THE CROSS AND JUST GO ON WITH YOUR LIFE, DO NOT EXPECT ANYTHING FROM THIS WOMAN, WHEN YOU SEE HER, ACT FRIENDLY, AND CORDIAL BUT THAT IS ABOUT IT.
2007-02-28 13:27:24 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋