My ex and I broke up about a month ago and cut all communication.. Well, he started calling me again out of the blue and we were talking about getting back together. Then something really big came up in his life, like he may have to move far away, (but it is not for sure yet), Anyway, I talked to him briefly last Friday night and he said he would call me back on Sat., but he didn't call back until yesterday. I didn't answer.. should I call him back? Also, do you think he just wants to be friends now, because after this situation came up in his life he stopped mentioning us getting back together, (but not because of the moving thing, we had a long distance relationship to begin with).. Your opinion would be very much appreciated!
2007-02-28 12:45:09 · 18 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
He initiated contact. He called last. It's your turn.
So, if you wanna talk to him then yes you should call him back.
--Lee Ann :)
2007-02-28 12:50:56 · answer #1 · answered by Lee Ann 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He probably still has feelings for you. Being friends is VERY hard to do for most people after a relationship that had any sort of emotional connections. If I were in your position I would do you both a favor that would lessen heartache on either side. He is your ex for a reason right? Just leave it at that. It gets harder as you keep talking longer down the road and nobody really wants to be that on and off again couple that I'm sure you have seen growing up. If I were you I'd cut the tied unless you are absolutely positively sure it is going to work. Seeing as he put you off until yesterday is not a good sign either. Sometimes us males want dominance over things we cannot have, it seems like this may be the case here.
Best of Luck!
2007-02-28 20:51:05 · answer #2 · answered by mjohnson351 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I always think a guy should call you when he says he is going to...if he doesn't, it's a sign of disrespect or that he takes you for granted. He might be hedging his bets i.e. would like to maybe get back with you and also wait and see what else there is for him after he moves. This is the age old relationships dilemma...he likes you but is there something better out there?
I'd wait and see if he calls you again. Good luck.
2007-02-28 20:51:46 · answer #3 · answered by Green eyes 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think you should not have to think about it. Do what you feel is right. He obviously wanted to talk to you, so why wouldnt you call him back? Do it. Maybe he wants to be friends or maybe not...stop analyzing it and take it for what face value is. Good luck
2007-02-28 20:50:23 · answer #4 · answered by Rachel H 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't call him back. Life is too short to chase after people. Let him come to you. If it's meant to be it'll work out. Relax and enjoy your life!!
2007-02-28 20:49:00 · answer #5 · answered by Your Mom 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you should probably stick to guys closer to home. but if you honestly from the bottom of your heart think that you guys will work then go for it.
oh yeah....you should call him back....you dont wanna be rude now.
2007-02-28 20:49:40 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
yes u shuld call him back,
and if you want to get back together, then well u should be the one to bring it up this time.
but bring it up subtly just in case he doesnt want to, that way it wont sound as if you are desperate.
2007-02-28 20:49:09 · answer #7 · answered by anysportzchik 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Call him back. Nothing will ever be answered if you don't talk to him.
2007-02-28 20:49:02 · answer #8 · answered by booooooooooooby 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
just be friends with him for now, ask him what he wants when you call back, yes you should call back
2007-02-28 20:47:55 · answer #9 · answered by Wendy C 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
call him back.
and if u wanna get back together then bring up the subject.
2007-02-28 20:48:40 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋