I am a freshman in highschool and i have a girlfriend who is also my best friend. We talk a lot but never hold hands or hug. Do i make the first move? when? How??
2007-02-28 12:19:40 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Sweet boy! Just keep taking it slow. Do it when the timing is right and you feel ready. You will know! I'm sure she is waiting for you to make the first move...so don't wait for her. Take your time, babe!
2007-02-28 12:23:51 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Beautiful question. According to society, you should be having sex right about now, but you seem like a person with morals. Congrats! Not very many people like that anymore. Alright, back to the subject. Personally I think you two should be at least kissing closed-mouth by now, but that's just me. I'm dating a Freshman, so I know how held back you peoples can be. Anyway, holding hands: Yes. Just do it randomly. The best time (I think) is when you two are walking together. Try holding hands for about a week, maybe more, then move your hand around the small of her back. NOT her waist, that's too low and it shows via body language that you only want to get into her pants. Hug her before you two go your seperate ways to class, too. That's all I got.
-Twitch
2007-02-28 20:26:57 · answer #2 · answered by Twitch 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Maybe shes waiting for you to make the first move. Maybe just start things off by touching her arm or holding her hand. something small. or move your hand by hers if shes ready shell take your hand. Maybe after a date give her a hug and say you had a good time. You make the first move. Thats whats us girls look for in guys!
2007-02-28 20:25:18 · answer #3 · answered by Katie S 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You should hold hands. Just ask her to give you a hug, every now and then. Say I love you, bye! And there's the hug part. Just make her feel comfortable around you. I think if you're both comfortable do whatever you please. Just know you have responsibility and you gotta take the stuff that you do and remember it. as if you were to have sex, and she accidentally got pregnant. you'd better have responsibility! lol! be safe!
2007-02-28 20:24:59 · answer #4 · answered by gabrielle(: 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Honey! You should have already been holding hands and have hugged! You can make the first move if you like, she is propably waiting for your que anyway!
2007-02-28 20:25:05 · answer #5 · answered by Karen 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
hold hands? Man by now you should be past the melon holding part and working your way downtown..hehe
2007-02-28 20:24:15 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
you may not want to, but it's your move to make, not hers. Just grab her hand in the hallway one day, and see where things go.
2007-02-28 20:24:06 · answer #7 · answered by aclotm 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you sound despreet just go to a romantic movie then make your move
2007-02-28 20:23:40 · answer #8 · answered by redkids 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
yeah. just do go for it. i was nervous too. but you just gotta take initiative.
2007-02-28 20:23:09 · answer #9 · answered by Danny S 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you and when ever you feel the moment is right
2007-02-28 20:23:49 · answer #10 · answered by dead man 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋