my boyfriend of 2 years mother passed he seems to neagtive about life. no more fun things to do like we used to when we frist got together . i know grief is hard for everyone. I miss his mom dearly myself but i dont hold her death as a reason to be upset about things all the time.
2007-02-28 12:18:57 · 7 answers · asked by JoJosGirl 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
its not that our reationship is bad . its just different. we both are suffering from the loss of his mom so there for we dont do much and it hurts not to be able to enjoy things together like we used too
2007-03-01 14:07:31 · update #1
I'm sure he's having a hard time accepting the loss. Give him time :) Just being there for him, will help alot. At the same time, let him know, his mom is always gonna be watching him from up above.
She'd really be upset seeing him this way. The best thing he can do for his mom is to get on with life. Do things that'll make her proud :) She'll never really be gone, her memories will live on :)
2007-02-28 12:28:54 · answer #1 · answered by Shobha 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sounds like he is grieving still. He will need to take all the time he needs to grieve hun. Dont rush him, but rather be suggesting of things to do. Tell him it will help him take his mind off things. People grieve in different ways, and just because u dont feel u would be like he is if the same thing occurred with u, doesnt mean he is gonna be like u or anyone else when it comes to his grief. Its a hard task, and i know u care for him, so support him. He will rebuild his life without his mom in it eventually. Just be there when he is done grieving.
Good luck to u hun.
2007-02-28 12:26:14 · answer #2 · answered by Truth Teller 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
u should try to comfort him not be madd cuz he wont go bak to the way it use to be, cuz fact of the matter is, it will never be the same again, wen u loose a mother thats tha hardest thing to loose ever. So comfort him not be madd
2007-02-28 12:23:46 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
and it wasn't YOUR MOM... that's why you can get over it faster than he can... geez... it would take a long freaking time to get over a parent's death... what if one of your family members died? Seriously think about it, what if they died? You wouldn't exactly feel like holding hands and skipping through the park and laughing and looking at rainbows, now would you? Be a little more sensitive, and a little less selfish.
2007-02-28 12:23:51 · answer #4 · answered by F.J. 6 · 0⤊ 1⤋
it takes time,jus b there for him.take him 4 coffee or smthin n tel him it not da end of the world.
2007-02-28 12:23:20 · answer #5 · answered by minoo p 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He needs to see a doctor about this. His depression is interferring with his life (and yours).
2007-02-28 12:23:51 · answer #6 · answered by diannegoodwin@sbcglobal.net 7 · 0⤊ 1⤋
show him what he has to live for and be there for him.
2007-02-28 12:22:12 · answer #7 · answered by dead man 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋