My best friend bf left her 2 stay with his ex and the ex bought him a lot of things and 1 of the things was a phone. So 1 day he called their home(they have a place together) with that number which was in the ex name, so she contacted the ex on her phone and they meet with each other. The ex told her a many things, but she said that they hadn't been intimate, I told her the girl was lying and the bf got kicked out of the ex home and he went back 2 my bestfriend and she took him back. She said that he told her if she wouldn't have told the ex about them being engaged that he was gone from their house and she excepted that from him and said everyone has problems. I decided to back off of that one> What do u guys think will happen with that situation? I think that he's a user and a loser and they have children together.
2007-02-28 12:16:04 · 5 answers · asked by sweet p 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I think your feelings are correct. If I were you I'd gently suggest she re-examine what he has done and ask her if she think's he is a user. If you tell her strait on how you feel you could end up alienating her and lose her as a friend. The best you can do is suggest she be cautious to protect herself and her kids. Maybe ask her what she will do if the bf pulls that B.S. again, get her thinking about it. She will probably defend him but she either doesn't see it or is in denial about it.
Be there for her and listen to her concerns as they come up. That's the best you can do.
2007-02-28 12:24:14 · answer #1 · answered by Mr. J 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Until your friend stands up for herself she will be walked on her entire life, by this man or other men. The minute that he moved out his place in my house would have been gone. You can't just walk in and out of peoples lives that love you. His ex is probably lying and so is he.
2007-02-28 20:21:01 · answer #2 · answered by Hawaiisweetie 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, I was going to recommend castrating him with an arc-welder, but it's too late and illegal. Offhand, I'd say he's going to make her life hell, and she'll regret taking him back.
2007-02-28 20:23:20 · answer #3 · answered by knight2001us 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
really i see no need for u to put this up on here.....i think u need to stay out of this...its her businees if she wants to take him back.. let her... i mean they have kids like u said soo juss leave it they might be doing it for the kids...so juss keep your comments to your self..
2007-02-28 20:25:07 · answer #4 · answered by linda 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Dude, what a loser! She needs to get rid of him.
2007-02-28 20:22:00 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋