She is bothering me saying break up with him he needs a better girl and I need a cuter guy because there is this guy and SHE thinks he is cute and said i am right for him and she said if you dont listen and do what I said your life is gonna be a wreck I told her I LOVE MY BF HE IS MY LIFE! she does no listen i'm trying to be calm to her
2007-02-28 12:13:47 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
i'm 18 and my bff is 20 and she said well I am older than you and I should handle your life my bf is 19
2007-02-28 12:22:29 · update #1
If you really love him then stay with him.
How can she tell you to break up with bf
If she she's really your bff then she would respect the fact that you love your bf and u dont wanna leave him just becuz she dont want u to be with him. Plus, how much more about relationships would she know than ur only 2 years apart.
2007-02-28 12:38:07 · answer #1 · answered by $t3pH@n!3 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Chica -
Your bff is not REALLY your bff. She sounds like a nosey, manipulative, pushy person.
Tell her that her reasons for you breaking up with your boyfriend make no sense to you. Tell her that the FRIENDS you want in your life will be people who look out for your best interest and your happiness - and tell her that you're feeling sad because she's not acting that way - and you thought she was your friend.
And also - she sounds ignorant to me. Everybody knows that "cuter" is not necessarily "better"
I hope it all works out!!
2007-02-28 12:22:03 · answer #2 · answered by liddabet 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
tell her 2 stop tellin her what 2 do ask her is there a something incorrect with him does he dis appreciate her in away no or sure her doesnt n if she nevertheless dont get it then u 2 want a breck from one yet another additionally ask her if she needs the beautiful guy o and sometime sfriends try this 2 acquaintances bcuz they r jealous that different buddy is chuffed n they r not they want2 c u unhappy n on my own
2016-10-16 23:41:50 · answer #3 · answered by fanelle 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Seems like the way she is acting, she shouldn't be your friend. Control your own life not let her control yours.
2007-02-28 12:19:47 · answer #4 · answered by zombiepirate_13 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
tell her to get her own boyfriend and she can break up with him whenever she wants, but your relationship doesn't concern her. And tell her to get a life and stop meddling, it's annoying.
2007-02-28 12:17:56 · answer #5 · answered by F.J. 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
sounds to me she got plans for your BF as well as soon as you are out the picture
2007-02-28 12:17:54 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
who cares what your friend thinks. She probably wants your bf for herself
2007-02-28 12:18:32 · answer #7 · answered by aclotm 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
how does ur bf treat u?like a gentleman?or treat u like a punching bag?treated like a gentleman,ur bbf want him for herself,treated like a punching bag,ur bbf want best for u.
2007-02-28 12:20:27 · answer #8 · answered by mak_nit_crimson 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
there is probably a reason for her wanting you to break up with him.... he's probably and asshole... and guys aren't worth losing your friendship... but i understand why you wouldn't want to =]
just think about it and ask your friend why she wants you to. and consider what she says. you might be blind to his assholeish ways =] its ok.
2007-02-28 12:17:42 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
just ask her as a friend to back offf if shes not willing to support you she ll understand
2007-02-28 12:18:31 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋