I want to ask this girl out at my school right but she never seems to be alone and this is something that you wanna do in private but i can never get a hold of her in the hall way. so is it a good Idea to ask her out on AIM.
2007-02-28 11:51:37 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
also she shares her phone with her sister and I don't know her phone number
2007-02-28 12:24:21 · update #1
Aim is a sad way to do it. You cant show emotion well with text!. The phone is a much sweeter way.
2007-02-28 11:55:15 · answer #1 · answered by Odessa Fraser 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No, it is not a good idea to ask someone out over AIM. This is such an impersonal method. I understand your dilemma of not being able to ask her this in person at school since she is never alone. However, there are so many issues associated with asking her out through AIM. For instance, she may not be alone when you converse with her on AIM or someone could be using her computer and inadvertently get your message. So I think you should try to ask her this in person. If you two are in the same class, ask her if you can speak to her privately for a minutes. If you are not in the same class, phone her and tell her that you would like to speak to her at school about something that you would rather not say over the phone. However, if you feel more comfortable you can ask her over the phone. I wish you the best of luck.
2007-02-28 20:09:11 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
ok heres the deal although its your choice to ask whoever this person is out any way you want most people will say that you shouldnt ask out/ break up by text or AIM or whatever you've got. so if you figure that when you talk on aim to anyone its hard to get the full meaning (like if someone is not that mad but it seems like it cuz you cant hear their voice or if they're sarcastic...etc) well then this person would probably rather see your face and you'd probably rather see theirs. honestly wouldnt you rather see the sparkle in that persons t=eyes or a smile cross their lips when you ask them out? be bold just do it in person. i'm sure it will go over alot better than on AIM.
~Stayin' original~
2007-02-28 20:05:36 · answer #3 · answered by originalnikki 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well, if u r ppositive u cant catch her by herself, u can talk with her on aim. and then like, u can say hi and stuff at school. and then one time when its just the two of u talking, u can ask her.... but since that may b hard, i guess just ask her out on aim. do u have her sn??? does she know that??? she may ask how u got her sn if she didnt give it to u, so b prepared to answer that. good luck!!
=)
2007-02-28 19:56:11 · answer #4 · answered by book worm 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't do it over AIM. The computer is a bad place, you never know, she could think it's a trick if it doesn't come directly from you.
2007-02-28 19:56:08 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
boi u better find a way to get her attention and dont look like a *** asking her out on aim
2007-02-28 19:55:05 · answer #6 · answered by ~Tranell~ 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
actually i dont think so..beacuse you dont really know how she is feeling at the time and if she's saying it because she just wants a boyfriend..on AIM you can ask her to meet up with you then you can talk to her
2007-02-28 19:56:24 · answer #7 · answered by MeeZra * 1 · 0⤊ 1⤋
NO! PICK UP THE PHONE!
2007-02-28 19:54:46 · answer #8 · answered by Patrick: The Existentialist Guru 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
HECK NO
2007-02-28 19:55:33 · answer #9 · answered by inkí 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋