so i was going out w/ this guy for like 2 months then i heard my frined liked him way be4 i did and then all my friends like hated me so i chose them over him and broke up w/ him. like 3 weeks later she got w/ him. i was really upset now i dont know why i broke up w// him and my friend have never done this shes really nice and i want him back. and i can't talk to her she would start to bawl. help! please!
2007-02-28 11:46:34 · 23 answers · asked by xx2dreamer2xx 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
first of all never let people tell u what to do. That was a big mistake.
Well I say weight till they break up or confront Ur friend . I t doesn't matter if shell cry shell get trough it .That was wrong of her to tell you to break up wit him just because she liked him before u.
I was in a similar situation my friends hated me. I did the same thing u did I backed down and let them control me. I feel so stupid for doing that. I ended up getting different friends anyways. FIGHT
Fight for him.
2007-02-28 11:58:44 · answer #1 · answered by blue eyes 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It sounds like you really do need to talk to her even if she would start to bawl.. because this is something upsetting you as well. It's almost an unspoken rule of female friendships that you don't date a guy after one of your close friends do.
And something to remember.. breaking up with your guy for friends usually doesn't work both ways.. most girlfriends wouldn't do the same for you.
2007-02-28 11:51:28 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
one thing u should have done is never make a choice 2 yea u shoulkd talk 2 her in private tell her how u feel u should never show fear 2 any1 n i mean any1 as far as im concern she a snake n its gonna come back 2 her n another thing i wouldnt trust ur friends that ur with n i hope ur not still friends with her u need 2 stop being weak n be strong n u need 2 be smart also u should ask ur x if he thinks of u n if he wants 2 try again n if he doesnt then leave him alon e cuz that fck up on both their parts or u could date his bestfriend or brother
2007-02-28 11:54:13 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
wow okay you should of never even dumb the guy for friends that shows him that you dont really care about that guy. there are many other guys out there. you should talk to your friend and if she listen to you then you will know that she might just be a good friend but it doesnt seem like that she totally ditch you for a guy knowing that you like him. you shouldnt have dumbed him just cause your friends thought you took your friends guy. if you really liked him it wouldnt matter. the only reason why a friend should tell you to get rid of a boyfriend is baecause he is either phycally or mentially hurting you or even both.
2007-02-28 12:02:24 · answer #4 · answered by cassandra z 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Honestly, it couldn't of been that serious if you broke up w/ him under peer pressure, what kind of friends would do that to you, unless the guy is a huge jerk, talk to your friend, if you really like him, stick with him!!
2007-02-28 11:50:33 · answer #5 · answered by ♥Heather♥ 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You made your bed...why do you wish not to lay down in it?
It's like "choices" which woman are afforded when it comes to deciding if a bay should be born, or places in little pieces at the bottom of a stainless steel bucket(via "choice")
Your decisions come with CONSEQUENCES...deal with it...it's called life.
2007-02-28 11:52:57 · answer #6 · answered by LovePinkPuffies 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well he sounds like a looser for getting over you soooo quickly.3 weeks and he already moved on to your friend?
Don't bother looking back! Always move forward!
2007-02-28 11:52:08 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
ok u have to tell that guy whats going on. tell him how u feel ( i know is sounds cliche) and tell him y u broke up w/ him. then tel ur friends "WHO THE F@#$ WERE U TO BE ANGRY AT ME 4 DATING THIS GUY? i didnt even know about __(friends name who is going out with the guy)____ and that she liked her. now look! I CHOSE U GUYS OVER HIM AND LOOK WHAT SHE DID!!! U M$%^&%$%^&*#@ @SS&^%$#"
2007-02-28 11:52:56 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
find new friends and drop the guy. If he's willing to go out with her right after you and knowing that was your friend then move on.....
2007-02-28 11:49:50 · answer #9 · answered by macmike 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
your friends should not have done that, but at the same time that guy must have not liked you because he went after your best friend
2007-02-28 12:07:35 · answer #10 · answered by Hi!! 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋