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ok ab only been going out with my bf for a month but i have new him for 6 years were frends b4 neway its my bday in a week and well he has been talking bout geting me an engagment ring and is talking bout getti married and havin kis its really weird to me bcouse this is my firs real relationship and it scares me oh and he phones every day and texts me about 100 times a day just to say how much he loves me plz help what wrong with him !!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! xxxxxx thanks btw am 17 hes 18

2007-02-28 11:41:49 · 12 answers · asked by tasha a 1 in Family & Relationships Singles & Dating

BTW THAT WAS HAVIN KIDS NOT KISS LOL

2007-02-28 11:42:39 · update #1

12 answers

He sounds a little crazy if you ask me. Ya'll are to young to be engaged in my opinion. But w/e.

2007-02-28 11:44:48 · answer #1 · answered by Danny S 5 · 0 0

At the end of the day it's your decision, but I'd say that's WAY to fast to be thinking of kids! You're not only both really young with your whole lives ahead of you but you've not been together very long either. He may have been your friend for a long time but who's to say that the relationship will last as long... aslo he seems to have got head over heels in no time... you need to make sure things are settled, stable and you are happy with each other for a lot longer before you even think about getting engaged let alone kids. The 100 texts a day is a bit crazy but he's obviously wrapped! Good luck!

2007-02-28 11:58:15 · answer #2 · answered by Hannah S 1 · 0 0

Slow down slow down.....tell him you are to young to be engaged you both need to be enjoying yourselves at your age.He must be spending a load on phone bills. Tell him that it is not wise to jump into things and a future needs planning and money and that he is jumping ahead of himself. Find out what you want out of life don't get lead astray if you don't plan out what you want and plan you could end up anywhere the best of luck have a good life just make sure of what you want xx

2007-03-04 02:06:11 · answer #3 · answered by lucy 4 · 0 0

First...you aren't writing a text message, so there is no reason to not write out words or punctuation. It was extremely difficult to read your question.

Second...you are 17. Have fun! Why settle down? It scares you for a reason, that's because you haven't lived your adult life yet. Tell him this time is for you right now, and you have your whole life to be married.

2007-02-28 13:58:48 · answer #4 · answered by Keep It Sane 3 · 0 0

WHOA.....he's weird, wanting marriage and kids after just a month together is way too heavy....tell him to slow down girl, wait a little longer....if he's getting too clingy then tell him it's doing your head in and to take a step back, as for the texts, tell him that you don't need to be text 24/7 and to pull in the reins,

2007-02-28 13:28:20 · answer #5 · answered by Dazzlebox 7 · 0 0

just tell him if you are both serious in this relationship (that the feelings of love are mutual) just wait till you guys get a bit older, bit more financial stable etc tell him that hes yours now and your not going anywhere and theres no need for a rush to get engaged at such a young age, an that you feel like youre too young to be having children etc.. just tell him to take his time im sure he will understand ;)

2007-02-28 13:51:23 · answer #6 · answered by WomanSoHeartless 3 · 0 0

Honestly I dont think hes crazy;; Hes just madly in love with you!

2007-02-28 11:57:35 · answer #7 · answered by Katie S 1 · 0 0

Sounds like he is reading all this from a book,only too fast! Please move on life is too short. He will soon find another girl.. Take care...

2007-02-28 12:58:14 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0 0

woooooo.... tell him to slow down hunny cuz it sounds like yull be making breakfast for 12 children in the morning...=|..... he sounds a little obsessed

2007-02-28 12:06:44 · answer #9 · answered by girl_next_door_red 3 · 0 0

You have your whole life in front of you don't mess it up, my dad used to say - do something in haste repent at leisure. good luck!

2007-02-28 12:07:23 · answer #10 · answered by mark r 1 · 0 0

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